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Sex: Help and advice

Too much control - advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Hi im 17 and i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend who is 27 for 6 months. Everytime we have sex he wants to be in control. i dont mind it because in some strange way i like being overpowered by a man but my boyfriend knows his limits. ...

He wants me to give him oral sex, but I've never done it before and I'm a bit nervous. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a bit of an embarresing question. im seeing this guy and we have slept together quite a few times and he wants me to give him a blow job. iv told him im not sure i want to do that and he said its fine he wouldnt make me do anything i wa...

In my forties and lost my sex drive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - I don't know what is wrong with me sexually. I'm in my forties, and I totally lost my sexual desire. I went to the doctor and evrything looks fine. Heart, hormons,ok... But I don't have a normal erection few years ago. Or sexual desire. My erecti...

I feel wrongfully accused of being a "tease"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now but we have known each other for about 2 months. We we first got together, he pressed himself against me and I said that I don't do that without a commitment and asked if he wanted to try dating ...

My sex drive is so low...I feel abnormal!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I really worry that my sex drive is much less than other women...I know traditionally women have lesser sex drives than men, but I could happily go weeks without it. I do masturbate and to be honest find that better than sex with guys - because ...

I used a dildo & now I'm bleeding heavily...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Ok this is going to sound stupid but i used a 6 inch dildo today and ever since i used that i have been bleeding alot and i mean alot, i have always been loosing like blood clots things as well and its really worrying me do any of you no whats wrong ...

Will the pregnancy test results be accurate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I wonder if anyone could help to put my mind at rest. i had sex on tuesday and he didnt cun inside me but i know precum can still get you pregnant. i did a pregnancy test on friday and it showed nagative which i am relieved about. will this be ...

I love to have sex all day and all night

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 19 years old and i have a problem. I love to have sex...all day and night. I tend to scare many girls off...... at first they tend to like it and then get annoyed by it and they just end up leaving me. what different can i do to keep the...

My problem is when I cum I squirt!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and started dating a new guy about a month ago. We haven't had sex yet but I know it is going to happen soon. My problem is when I cum I squirt, the first time it happened I had never even heard of it and had to look it up onli...

What are the signs of a true female orgasm?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - I want to know what the signs of a "true female orgasm" are. I know that there are some people who say that you can't tell but I don't believe that. So someone please help me by making this clear to me....

Latex allergy or something else? Temporary relief?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I had sex the other day with a new partner and we used a condom, and a vibrator. I took all the proper precautions, it wasnt my first time. But as time passed i started feeling dry and itchy and swollen. This has only happened to me one other time...

Have been with over 20 men in the last 18 months..sexual addiction!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Hi, Have been married for over 20 years. 2 years ago husband started working away from home. Was very lonely and turned to chatting on the internet. Met a man. He was everything I could have wanted. And sex was wonderful. Short story my husband f...

My 21 year old sister is doing sexual things that I know she will regret

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Im 26 years old and have a 21 yr old sister she was baby sitting for me and when she used our computer she didnt log off. I happened to come across a very distrubing email from her boyfriend of 6 months. Before I satrt I should say that se was been...

Never saw him cum..pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I never saw my ex partner pre cum and he always pull out..... Is there a chance i can be pregnant?? I never saw any coming? Please help.... ...

Sex hurts for her afterwards

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been very close and even intimate on a few occasions, however when we do have sex she gets a pain down below once we finish. she thinks its "probably just a cut or something" and not to worry about it. but weve stopped ...

He wants to try new things and anal sex is one of them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend was talking about things we want to try to do to improve our sex life. He was saying how he wanted to try anal sex and i agreed to it. But i don't really know what to expect. Does it hurt? Is it messy? Should we try it? Thanks :)...

I love my husband very much but have lost desire for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I met my husband years ago and we were friends for 9 years prior to starting a relationship. When we were first together we had sex all of the time, like every day. Once we moved in together of course the sex slowed down. We both have small ...

She slept with me 1st night we were together, does that mean she sleeps with every guy the 1st date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - So I have one more problem, well more of a question. After 7 yrs of being friends we have finally started dating. She has dated alot of guys in the past and being her roommate I got to hear alot of their sex life. She is very aventures in bed...

We met, had sex, and now he doesn't call

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - hi i met this guy and we talked on the fone all the time 4 a couple of months before we met, then we met up he came 2 mine we had sex. then we met up the other nite i went 2 his, its jus he dosent call or text me that often like he used 2, does he ...

Husband works all the time, no interest/desire for sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - My husband works as a radio presenter, and in the radio industry as well. For the past few weeks he's been spending far too much time at work well past working hours. It's not like he's been working for a promotion or anything, as he's been promot...

What are the chances I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Well I'm 15, and on Thursday I had the implant put in. I am still taking my pill every day, but on Saturday I had sex twice without a condom. What are the chances I'm pregnant? I don't think they are very high but I'm still kinda worried... Please I ...

I think my bf has insecurity issues about the size of his penis

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (?) - Hi, my bf and I don't intend to have sex anytime soon, but I think he has insecurity issues about the size of his penis. He's 14, I'm 15 (I'm only a few months older. Ive been called a pedophile enough times, thank you.) how can I help him with ...

Am I unappealing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (?) - Hey-- Umm, well I'm a 15-year-old girl. I'm 5'6", 150-160 pounds. The weight is comprised of muscle, hourglass curves, and 34DD breasts, hahaha. I've read a lot about girls asking advice about their small breasts, and I've seen a fair number o...

Is it posssible that I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - yeah so im 14 and scared to death! A few days ago me and my friend had somewhat sex. (i know im not a virgin anymore) He only went in once and didn't cum at all. Is it posssible that im pregnant?...

I don't think I'm big enough...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - Ok I know this must get asked all the time but Im worried that im not "big" enough I've been seeing this girl for a while and we've got a party coming up this weekend and shes been hinting that she wants to were both 18 and im just really inse...

My husband bit me when we had sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - my husband got drunk and we got home , he wanna have sex, while we were doing it he start bitting my shoulder i said stop don't do it and he won't listen , it realy hurt and he bite me like ten times and i start crying , a nd when he was done he ...

Went to a party and got drunk. Was I raped?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - A while back I went to this party with my friends. I had been upset that night because I saw my "boyfriend" at the time going to another party with girls he claimed were his "friends" When we got to the house, there were about ten guys there and ...

Who is the daddy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I had sex with my ex boyf for the VERY LAST time during the middle of a period - he came inside me before I had a chance to tell him not to!! he told me he thought there was less risk of getting me pregnant and hope I didn't mind..and cos I was on a ...

Am I incapable of having an orgasm?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and i dont know if ive ever had an orgasm well i dont think i have my question is what can me and my partner do and how will i kno and pleas dont reply o u'll just kno. ive been with him for 6 years on and off so its not that i ...

I find it a turn off that he's pushy about sex!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I have been going out with this guy now for 9 months, in the beginning things were great, it was so good I thought he was 'the one' until I started to get more tired as was suffering from a lot of stress in work. I told him I can't have sex cos I ...

Sexually frustrated, I cheated..but I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - hi everyone. i have been with my partner now for over 3 years. last year while he was away i slept with someone else. i told him and we worked through it. he works in the military and is due to go away for 6 months. i meet him when i was 17-18 and ...

Is he stringing me along or am I just sprung?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - So I got to know this guy through the gym. He had just gotten his heart broken but there was an obvious mutual attraction (at least physically). We'd hang out once in a while but mostly see each other at the gym. After a few months, I totally fell ...

Alot of issues with my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I have had a serious of problems with my current boyfriend that are seriously bothering me--- a couple of months ago my boyfriend and I were having sex. in the middle of it he decides to open up his computer and put on porn..after asking why he wa...