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Archived questions from: 4 March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He wants me to smoke weed with him before we have sex... what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but he also wants me to smoke WEED with him before we do it so I can get high. I don't know if I should because I'm worried that if he gets high he'll forget to put a condom on and I might get pregnent. What ...

Putting the lust back into the marriage so I don't fantasize about other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Before we got married I was always attracted to my wife and would often fantasize about her. We never managed to have a very successful sex life primarily because my mind would always wander and I wasn't therefore able to achieve orgasm. Then...

A question strictly for the men aunts!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Okay guys, would you want a straight girl that would have sex with you or a bi girl that would let you have sex with her and her girlfriend?...

Is it true that you can catch sexual infections/illnesses from having sex a lot?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Is it true that you can catch sexual infections/illnesses from having sex a lot?...

My boyfriend wants to have sex for the 1st time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now and he thinks we should have sex but I'm a little scared because it's my 1st time and I'm also a little scared that I might get Pregnant, I mean I do love my boyfriend but I don't know what I ...

I have bad results from masturbating too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Hey so I'm only 15 and I've masturbated since like fifth or sixth grade. I think I may have over done it cuz it just doesn't... look the same down there. Does anyone else have this problem or is it just me? And if so, is it reversable?...

"A roll in the hay!!!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - We sometime use the term “a roll in the hay” when referring to sex. Has anyone every had sex in a barn? Was it a good location? In what parts of the barn did you do it in? Did you actually have sex in the hay? What positions did you use? ...

Do guys always think of girls they like in a sexual way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Just wondering lol If a guy finds a girl attractive, does he fantasize about her or picture her naked?...

Very few opportunities to have sex, and she usually doesn't take advantage of them!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - So heres the stuation. Both my girlfriend and I live at home with our parents so we don't get to have sex often. Its not a big deal to me, but I do have a problem with when we have the chance we don't take advantage of it. Not because of me, but ...

We keep getting interupted before sex...karma? A sign not to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - This has to do with my boyfriend and myself. We are in love. We often make out. When we are both into it we try to advance toward sex. Every time we try to move on to sex we seem to be interrupted. Last time I was starting to remove my boyfriend’s ...

What happens if you have the cervical cancer jab and you have already had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - What happens if you have the cervical cancer jab and you have already had sex? I am not asking because I am in the situation, I am just wondering because people have said lots about them....

If we have sex more than once at a time, I have stomach cramps for at least a day afterwards. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Recently i've started sleeping with my boyfriend, and i've noticed something strange. If we have sex more than once at a time, I have stomach cramps for at least a day afterwards. What confuses me is that i've had sex previously, again more than ...

My masturbation technique is not as effective as it used to be, what happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - This is a little awkward but here goes. I have been masturbating a lot lately but recently I have noticed a "change". Before when I was masturbating, my clit became somewhat umm "hard" if that makes any sense. But now, its soft all the time and it ...

My girl is skinny, I am big, how do we manage intercourse, more so how do I approach her to do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - How do i pop the question on my hot and skinny GF? She's pretty small and i've done everything except intercourse with her, but how should we do it? we already talked about it and were ready but should i do it? where though? I know about condoms, ...

I am 16, going to have sex for the first time, how can we make it special?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I'm 16. My boyfriend is 18. We've been dating for almost a year now and we had a long talk and I decided that I was ready to give up my virginity to him. He's done it before and I want it to be special for the both of us. Does anyone have any ...

Why is she sending me mixed messages, I'm confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - What are the signs that someone is not sexually attracted to you anymore? i've been in talking to this girl in a different state for a couple of months. i can't see her for a long time so we decided to keep the relationship open. she kno...

Will this work??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid: I met a great guy after a long relationship finally ended (messily) and we started a fast relationship. From the beginning, he didn't trust me; he had been hurt in the past and I tried to be understanding and confident about ...

We have not had sex for 4 months, what is wrong with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - My partner and i had no sex for four months it is unlikely of him to go without sex, what is wrong with him?...

Haven't had sex in 6 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I haven't had sex in over six years. What can I do to better myself for the next time I have sex and also to give a A+ blow job?...

Too big for anal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - first off I'm gay. me and my boyfriend have dated for half a year. we try to have sex but we can't. the main problem is his size. when he starts it hurts and when he tries to go deeper I can't bear the pain. is there a way to help him get in?...

Questions about vaginas

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Do smaller skinnier girls have smaller/tigher vaginas compared to big girls? And does your vagina get smaller when you lose weight? Thanks....

Why can I not rise to the occasion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - I am 23 years old and I was sexually active kind of a year ago. Recently I hooked up with a lady but I simply can't rise to occasion as much as I try and by any chance it wouldn't last to the extent of penetration. What is wrong with me?...

I would love to have sex with her but I don't want to lose my virginity just yet.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Hi aunts, I need some advice. I have a girlfriend and I absolutely adore her, she feels the same way about me, and I'll never do anything to pressure her or hurt her. See I'm a pretty nice guy (14), really sensitive and caring, I'm not like those ...