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18-21,
*oviefan
writes:I really need help. My last attempt at getting my first girlfriend failed in a really odd and stressful way that has yet to end fully and conclusively because she keeps telling a few of my friends random messages to me saying that she still likes me even tho she wont talk to me face to face at all, and that she is just frustrated right now. My friends know this. I was kind of depressed for a few days and now im starting to really get back to normal, up until yesterday and today. My friends who i would consider the generic males that would pretty much have sex with anyone anywhere keep threatening that unless i get a date for prom by the end of next week their going to hook me up with someone. I know that they will try to hook me up with the biggest slut they can find and just try to get me to loose my virginity.To top it off these few friends always give me a hard time because i have never done anything sexually and havent had my first kiss. Its becoming non-stop as prom steadily approaches. Its just making me really upset and unhappy on top of the emotions attached to my last attempt with someone i really liked and had a lot in common with. Im so close to telling the all off. They keep telling me that if i don't have any experience that ill just do terrible in collage as I did in high school.Also on top off all of this i am becoming insanely sexually frustrated right now. This rears its head from time to time, but it hasn't for a while and its really bad this time. This just makes my emotions that much more erratic where i am happy one second and sad the next as my mind jumps subjects in this jumbled mess. What should i do about my friends harassing me about this and pressuring me. How will girls react to me being a virgin in every way in collage when i do find someone i really like or love. Will they care either way. Do i sort of stay open to any girls while I wait to see what happens with the previous girl i tried with.Any other help would be great to, my weeks has been horrible aunts.
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reader, Moviefan + ♥, writes (30 March 2009):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hopefully ignoring them doesn't piss them off, o well they have been doing that to me for some time. Thanks guys, im sorry i didn't respond till now never had a chance.
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reader, satindesire +, writes (27 March 2009):
 Most girls won't care if you're a virgin or not, as long as you're willing to learn about how to sexually please a woman and you're communicative about sexuality in general.
As for your friends, it's really time for you to stand up and tell them all to piss off. They're being way too stubborn about this situation, the world doesn't revolve around sex and they need to stop acting like you're going to DIE if you don't have sex rightnowthisverysecond! If they bring it up, immediately cut them off, tell them you absolutely refuse to talk about that, and walk away. They'll eventually get it.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Those bastards want you to get laid. You should pick better friends. You should wait as long as possible and as long as you want and think you need before you have sex with a girl. This is an important mile stone in your life and should be carefully thought out before you make a move. There!.... was that long enough. Now go get laid.
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reader, Bubblegum  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 First of all, I don't think you should listen to your friends at all. If theyre so bothered with your sex life then there must be something wrong with thiers. You should tell them to go get thier own sex life rather than try to control yours.
As for prom and 'hooking up'. How about you just ask a nice girl to prom? Don't even think about sex; to be honest, its not that important. But if you're worried about having sex, most girls want to lose thier virginity on prom night.
Hope this helps.
Bubblegum xx
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