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Archived questions from: 11 March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Surprise in the bedroom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hey everyone...=] Me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary is coming up next month. We've agreed to not buy each other anything ( We are saving for holidays which will be soon after!)So instead were gonna get a take away, movie, the usual.. Howe...

My wife says she gets yeast infections when I perform oral sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - My wife says that when I stimulate her oraly that she gets "yeast infections" or becomes sore? Is there any thing that can be done about the infections or could she be using that as an a excuse to stop me from having oral sex with her??...

What does sex feel like?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I'm not trying to be a smart aleck or anything like that; just naturally curious. I am a 25-year old female virgin (call me old fashioned but I plan to wait until marriage to have sex). I cannot wait to have sex and was wondering what it fe...

More important? Your happines & life? Or your kids?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I have been married for about 13 years now. I have two daughters which I love so much. I am an honest, hardworking husband and try to be the best father that I can. I hug my kids daily, tell them I love them, sit with them on the couch and watch ...

I know this isn't good..I always feel bad after sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hey. Ive been with my boyfreind for almost nine months and recently we started having sex. But im confused because before we do it i feel so ready and i want to. But after we do it i always feel bad. im not quite sure what it is that i feel but i kn...

Living up to "redheads are good in bed"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I'm sixteen in a few days and i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, i'm a redhead and drowning with boredom i decided to research about redheads themselves, i've always been pretty firey and most of the things and myths i've been told ...

Drunken one night stand? Or emotional affair without sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Do you consider a drunken one night stand to be 'better' or worse than a longstanding emotional affair without sex?...

Any tips on sexual activities during my period?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are very sexually active. We are pretty much comfortable around each other. Our communication is great. but, there's a tiny problem. I'm on my period. He says he doesn't care, and that its natural...and he'll be w...

I am too wet "down there". Is that a bad thing for men

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I have a problem with getting "TOO" wet even before intercourse. It's always been like this for me. Not with just one person, it happens whenever I get turned on. I mean it can be seen through my jeans. Anyway, my current boyfriend jokingly comments ...

Outside opinion please: does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I have known this guy for 7 months, i met him through learning to to drive! He is a nice guy, my type both personality and looks. Was wierd at first as i was confused to whether i did like him more than just a normal person, but the more...

New to the dating thing. Should I meet him for lunch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Help! Should I meet him for lunch? My boyfriend is in the area..and he text me this morning to meet him for lunch. He's used to buying food from the dollar menu during the week and on weekends we really splurge. He does pay for pretty much all our ...

First time sex hurts my girlfriend too much, help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I need some urgent help on this matter. Me and my girlfriend just started having sex (mind you we are both virgins) and we there are some obstacles in the way. The first couple nights we tried I was really nervous and having performance anxiety so ...

I don't want to be drunk to enjoy sex. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I'm just turning 20 and have been with my partner for a while and I love him dearly. The only problem is I've never had a high sex drive and it seems to be deteriorating. It's not just with my current boyfriend i've had this ever since i was ...

I have chlamydia. How do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I feel physically ill right now, I just had a medication abortion last week. I got pregnant by my boyfriend of 3 years and we knew we couldn't support a baby. I was off of birth control for only one month when I got pregnant. While I was at Plan...

How can I make a Guy I have slept with on and off for over 5 years to fall in love with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I met this guy back when I was 19, we started seeing each other but secretly since he didn't wnat anybody to know that we were together, we were sleeping together for about 8 months, then all of the sudden one day he told me he had a girlfriend, i ...

Resentment over porn & no sex, how to get over it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I'm so angry with my boyfriend. He hasn't approached me for sex for months but I know he's yanking it to porn and men's magazines. I'm sure he doesn't have a porn addiction, more so a preference. I'm guessing self love is easier because he doesn...

Can I get pregnant from sperm in the mouth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Well im a little nervous. I usually have a 29 day cycle, ive had it for 4 months now. my last period was Febuary 8 2009. I had oral sex with my boyfriend last feb 26, 3 days after my calculated ovulation time of feb 23. Now im around 3 days la...

Incestuous thoughts - I know it is wrong, please help me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Hi, last post was rejected, too explicit :( I just need peoples opinions. I have always hated my sister (I am 34 she is 30) I am divorced 2 kids, she is single 1 kid and I have been turned on by incest for the past month or so. anyways, to ...

Advice please: To shave or not to shave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - My fren recommended me to shave my vagina and if possible wax it so that sex feels better. Is it really true? Cuz' i feel too naked walking around like that....

In it only for the sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - This guy and I have known each other for about two months and just started to fool around last week. We have a mutual friend and he told me that he said that he is looking for something long term and he doesnt sleep around. The first time we kissed, ...

How many is too many

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - is six guys alot for a 17 year old girl to sleep with? please help!!!...

My boyfriend says I'm tighter after giving birth

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had sex only 5 weeks after I gave birth. I feelreally uncomfortable because I think I might be loose or something. The reason I say that is because he said afterwards I am tighter now than I was before. I barely tore at all. But ...

Help with kegels

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - This is a weird question - when I get really turned on, instead of contracting, the walls of my vagina sort of like pull away from one another (like sucking air in), instead of contracting in on themselves. I've never given birth and haven'...

We have a great sex life but he still watches porn without me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I am very active sexually. In fact, I just sucked my husband off this morning before we left for work. I probably give it up to him 3-5 times a week. So please, someone tell me why he has to sneak around and watch porn? I am one of those wo...

Scared of pregnancy after my first time

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Oh god, and I thought I'll be safe when I do my first sex! It just happened, I wanted it to happen. I was worried because we didn't have any condom, I wasn't on pill either. Argh!!! I'm in a foreign country, and I have no health insurance, I also ...

Would you prefer a girl to be knowledgable or clueless in sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Recently, I've met a guy who is, so far, the best person in my life. It wasn't because of his looks or anything either. Something seemed to click between us. I've seen many guys and not once was I attracted to him as much as how I am right now. ...

Self-conscious a problem for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Okay... Ladies... Please, I need your best advice. Since young I didn't like to move and enjoyed food and sweets. In result I became overweight. It wasn't that bad, though. I weight a lot, but clothes covered it up decently, so I was fat, but not...

How can I re-tighten the vaginal muscle

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Ah... Please.. I think I may need help.. For all my life I've never had a boyfriend who was serious with me relationship-wise, until I met my current boyfriend. Helives far away, but is more than willing to stay with me as a long distance relatio...

B/f smells so bad "down there" I almost gag!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hello all, My problem is simple. My boyfriend smells horrendously bad "down there" and I can barely give him a blow job without gagging. I usually just breath through my mouth but I would prefer my nose (its just easier that way). Anywho, it s...

Is tasting yourself strange?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I am fairly new to this site and have learned a lot about my body. I am exploring things that i never gave much thought to until recently. I have done almost no dating. I have touched the more private aras and it is giving me pleasure. I have ...