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writes:hey im 15,I recently did it with my boyfriend and it was my first time and it was his2nd time.I really like him a lot and I wanted to loose my virginity to him cus I really like him and he really likes me 2,I think I won't regret it because I am really in love with him.when he put it in it hurt a little but it didn't feel like it went all the way in, did I poped my cherry?I didn't bleed but after it hurt when I pee after we did it.we also had unprotected sex but he pulled out but I felt kinda wet I think it was my imagination b/c I wasn't bleeding and I didn't have sperm on me and he sed no sperm came out cud I be pregnant? When you do it for the first time do you have to bleed if you popped your cherry?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks a lot for the replies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): Hey,
That was very irresponsible of you. Of course you could be pregnant! You better run to the chemist and get the morning after pill, if not, you should get a pregnancy test later on. NEVER NEVER NEVER have sex without one. Even if he pulled out before he actually came, sperm can escape before that. That is by no means a safe method. Why on earth did you not consider it? There are HUNDREDS of posts on here of people in your situation. if he has done it twice, he should know better. Sex is illegal for people your age. I hope you have been with this boy for more than a year and a half. you are not legally counted as a couple. This boy could just be playing you. What you feel right now isn't love. Love is something that develops through time, you don't just instantly fall in love with someone. What you feel right now is just hormones and lust. You will regret it later on. It may feel like love right now, but trust me, it's not. I was lucky, i was given the opportunity to do it with this absolutely GORGEOUS boy at 16, i didn't take it as i knew i wasn't mature enough. To have sex, you must be positive that you are ready to raise a child. Otherwise, it is a no. You at least need to have a job to afford the protection you need and to afford the child if you don't.
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reader, georgiexx  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 By popped your cherry, i'm assuming your talking about the hymen. this isn't always presents so its not uncommon for there to be no or little blood, the hymen can be broken by sport, using tampons, masterbation... the pain my have been caused by a bit of stretching to accomodate his penis, which isn't uncommon. Of course there is a risk of pregnancy if you engage in unprotected sex, therefore you should go and get the morning after pill (which is effective up to 72h after having sex)- there is also the posibility of you have contracting a STD or STI, therefore you should go for a proper checkup with your doctor or a sexual health nurse. please remember to always use protection and go on the pill. take care
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Pulling out does NOT work. Make him wear a condom next time! You can get pregnant even with the pullout method. Sperm doesn't go "on you" to get pregnant, it goes inside you and you will not see it in small quantities (ie if only precum went inside of you -- yes, that can get you pregnant!)
Also, I have heard some girls do not bleed when they loose their virginity, but I will let others answer that part of your question.
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