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Archived questions from: 9 March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

They tell me I'm a fool

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

9 March 2009 (?) - I'm 23 yrs old and have been having an affair with my much older marreid boss for 7 months. I first I told myself it was just sex and thought it ws fun and exciting but now Im in love with him. He is 42 and has twin son that are 3 yrs old and he ...

Is it MY semen or does she seemen?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - My partner and I had sex two days ago, today while we were beginning to have sex I pulled out and my member had a big glob of semen just below the head, and I know I didn't just cum. It looks fresh and she says it's from the last time we had sex and ...

How to relax when he is fingering me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Ok, me and my boyfriend have been talking about him fingering me. I just want to know does it hurt and what should I do to help myself relax when he is doing it? Hope you can help....

Orgasm by fingering possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - Well to start off me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months now and we both lost our virginity and we had sex about five times now and I haven't gave her an orgasm I'm always the one who gums first so I was wondering how do I give her an ...

I'm not good at giving bj's!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Okay, so my borfriend and I have been dating almost 4 months now. I really love him, and he really loves me. He wants me to give him blowjobs somtimes. He has a bigger penis (biggest I've had anyway) I'm not very good at giving blowjobs, but the ...

She likes oral sex but I hate the taste!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - Hey everyone... I have a little problem I don't like the taste of going down on my girlfriend is their anyway to fix this because I know she likes it but the taste is just so bad to me anything will help thanks!...

He can't last during sex & I'm getting bored!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend can not last during sex. its getting a problem because i am getting bored. it doesn't seem to matter what position we try or condom types he just has not stamina. I have never orgasimed, i don't look forward to having sex with my ...

Young married parents losing interest in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - My wife is 21 and I am , we have a daughter turning 2. We are very busy as she is a full time student and works part time and I work 2 jobs. We are working hard to realize our goals of owning our own house and being financially secure. The problem ...

Sex Starved Husband needs help....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I have been married 25 years to my childhood sweetheart, the past five years things are going down hill, my drive for sex is great hers is almost gone, what am I to do, she gets all mad if I look at porn or pictures, yet when I ask for it from her ...

I've decided to swallow my boyfriend's semen, but I'm still scared.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - i've decided to swallow my bfs semen and i'm still nervous about it. i'm afraid i'll gag from the taste. people said it's better to let it shoot down your throat but i'm horrible at deep throating. i was wondering, does the semen shoot out fast into ...

I took 2 morning after pills at the same time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - i bought some morning afterpills after having unprotected sex last night with my husband. i took both pills immediately without reading the instructions, which after i read i saw i had to take one then the other one after 12 hrs from the first one. ...

I bled for 11 days after having sex, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I'm sorta worried now! I always said I wanted to save my virginity until I was older, mature and in love.. I've been in a relationship with this amazing guy now for just over a year, and we both felt ready, we'd spoke about it for about 6 weeks, I ...

After having sex I lose interest in the girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I hv a problem and dats after hving sex wit a girl i wil lose intrest in dat girl. I wil not tel her so bt wil start avoiding her and my behavoir changes. Pls tel me wat might be d problem....

Husband says he never masturbates! Lying?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi i have been with my husband for 25 years a while ago he was having a bath i went into the bathroom he did nt hear me enter and he jumped up and i saw that he had a hard on he tried to cover it but i know what i saw. Aked him if he was masturba...

He refuses to go down on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I am just wondering why my boyfriend won't go down on me anymore. We haveo nly been together about 4 months and I keep myself well groomed. THe most it ever gets to down there is a little stubbly which he has commented he likes because it "tickles" ...

Have I lost my sex appeal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - so i have been wondering for the past maybe 7 months of my almost 2 year relationship that my girlfriend, now fiancee has been wanting increasingly less sexual things, not just sex, but everything of a sexual nature, even just making out or fooling ...

How do I become a caring guy interested in girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I had masturbatd 4 4yrs,bt had stop and i hv noticed dat i now find relationshipt boring, so i find it difficult 2 enter in2 a relatnship even though i had many girl as friend bt i cant love any of dem. So pls wat should i do 2 start lovin girls. ...

Very bumpy textured vaginal wall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Well, I was never one to touch myself at all and one night i decided to try it, and well because it is sort of embarrassing to ask people in person I was wondering if anyone could tell me if i was supposed to have a very bumpy textured vaginal wall? ...

If he has erection trouble only with you, does it mean he doesn't like you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 260 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - i've dated this guy for two months, and from the beginning he had trouble either getting an erection or maintaining. and he's in his 20s! now, the only time i noticed he didn't have a problem getting hard or ejaculating was when i just gave him...

Is it back for him if I touch his penis after he comes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - when you are having intercourse with a guy and he orgasms, do you keep going if you haven't come or do you have to get off of him immediately? i heard that if you touch the penis after he comes, then it hurts him because it is so sensitive at that ...

A date turns into a FWB, but I'm confused as to WHY?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for 2 months, we had sex on the first date and continued to date for several weeks. i was unsure about him the whole time, and he kept hinting that i could see him and date others. about two months in, he became a bit distant and ...

What do I do with his "boys" while giving a blowjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - how do i suck my bfs testicles during a blowjob? ive never done it before so im a little nervous as far as what to do with them. do i lick them? suck them? and my bf says he enjoys the blowjobs i give a lot but i want to make them more enjoyable. ...

How do I stop? How do I get rid of this incessant temptation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I am bi-sexual. But i am not like the common bi-sexuals who are slutty, and have like 2 partners. I've always been loyal to my past girlfriends, and loyal to my past boyfriends. I would never be with a man or a woman that allowed me to have se...

He's hiding porn in the ceiling, should I just leave him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - My husband lies about porn, he hides them in the ceiling and an unfinished room wall. I've caught him several times and he lies to my face. Then just pretends everything is OK. To top it off he has every excuse not to have sex We are 43 years old...

Since he went to the GP, I can't deal with my husbands impotence...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I'm having a difficult time dealing with my husband's impotence. Interestingly, it wasn't a major problem until he went to the GP about it. We've been married over 8 years and we are both terrific people and terrific parents. We were good friend...

What is it like to swallow semen?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - What is swallowing like? I want to swallow my bf's semen but I'm kinda afraid because some people say they gag. What do they gag from? Do they gag from the taste? or the semen going in their mouth and down their throat? I have horrible gag ...

Is it a good idea to break your hymen before you have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I was wondering if it was possible and also safe to break your hymen using something other than a dildo. Like, a hairbrush or something of that sort. I'm not planning on having sex any time soon, but I would like to break before I do have sex, ...