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Threesome troubles!

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Question - (17 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm in a very strange situation - my boyfriend and I have been in an open relationship for the past year and a half. We are a highly passionate couple and like to explore new things. He been seeing this girl for a few months now, I've met her a couple of times and he has asked if I would take part in a threesome. I want to do it but, I don't find her attractive. In fact I find her quite ugly (I know it sounds bad but I have to be honest). I put it down to that she must have a great personality but no that is also very dull. She's a nice but dim kinda gal.

I know I'm not the one dating her so my opinion doesn't really matter but I can't help but wonder why he is attracted to her. I actually thought that I was being a bitch but other people have also commented on her looks/personality.

I want to make my fella happy especially as he took part in one of my fantasies but I really don't think I can if she is the other woman. I have suggested using another girl but he wants it to be her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

threesomes always end up with troubles.. whether its cheating or whatsoever. would you like ur guy to touch another girl? do you think he would accept you to touch another guy or another guy touch you? hmm..

its up to you to decide!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

The answer (always) is you shouldn't if you don't want too just to please him. Find someone for him instead, someone you like and then suggest it back. Failing that if you cant say No then by a paper bag \ mask.

Hugs Star.x.

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