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How do I make my man really hard?

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Question - (17 February 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2009)
A female Brazil age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I want him to become very hard and so he could be the happiest..

Any tips or ideas? I'm willing to do anything and i'm always in for something new! Cheers

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009):

you should sit on his lap facing him,then kiss him on his lips and let him kiss you on the neck, make sure to poke your chest out son he can feel them, next brush your hand over his penis, try not to make him think you did it purposly, if he has hair play in his hair

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A male reader, yankit United States +, writes (17 November 2009):

Tell him how good it feels and what you want him to do next

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A male reader, yankit United States +, writes (17 November 2009):

talk "dirty talk" that'll make a boy or man explode when the time is right[if you know what i mean]and happiness is not produced it's jointly enjoyed. One last piece of advice; you need to reach orgasm first. We men like to be a "ladys first" kind of person.

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A male reader, aman United States +, writes (17 February 2009):

It varies from guy to guy. You've got to find what he likes by trying different things.

Try kissing/licking/sicking/biting his ears while making out. Try the same on his neck. Put your hands through his hair. Rake your nails across his back. Pull him close to you. Put your hands on his butt and pull him close. Use your hand(s) on his dick, guys like it to be touched. Kiss it. gently play with his balls.

You get the idea. There's tons of things you can try, you've just got to see which ones he likes best.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

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well he gets hard alright! i just want him to get harder.. if u get what i mean.. haha.

ps. he doesnt smoke / drink / take any drugs. he's a good man, and deserves all the best ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

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keep those ideas coming please, they're all great! thanks,

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

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i can feel my man's erection everytime we hug and kiss, bu i want to make him really hard!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntstart by rubbing, maybe kiss his penis, but make sure you kiss it so he can feel a slight pressure, really press your lips down. lick from the balls to the tip, and keep lots of eye contact...its all about confidence! x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

All guys are different- some get hard over the smallest thing (when my boyfriend and I first started going out, he'd get a semi just from me kissing him with tongue!) but I can try give you a few tips. Sexy underwear nearly always works, taking a bath together... basically if you come across as confident enough to be naked and don't mind being naked in front of him. Prolong foreplay, it makes him last for longer! If you're giving him a hand job or blowjob, don't go straight for his penis, work your way down slowly to build up anticipation. Also, ask him about his fantasies and what he would like to try- imagination is very important. I've been with my boyfriend for a while and followed these sort of guidelines and never had problems getting him hard, so good luck!

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