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How do I get out of the rut I am in and make changes for the better? Feel like life is passing me by

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Question - (24 November 2014) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2014)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This year, for a number of reasons,has been quite difficult. Not one to remember.

I feel like I'm in a rut and I just can't seem to get out of it.

I want to make positive changes to my life and lifestyle.

I know the person I want to be, but I don't feel like I am in a position to be that person at the minute.

I don't think the changes are dramatic; just changing habits, prioritising things, becoming more productive, enjoying life more etc.

When I've made changes in the past, I manage to keep it up for a number of weeks, perhaps months, and then it slips. I know this might be true for a lot of people. But how do I change it?

In an ideal world I would go away, take a little break, recharge and refocus. But, unfortunately I do not have that luxury. How do I make the changes I want when I feel the way that I do?

I feel like life is passing me by. I want to grab it by the scruff of the neck. But, physically I don't seem capable at the minute.

Does anyone have any advice.

Thanks

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A male reader, lifesgreat United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2014):

Mate I really hope you get the answer you are looking for .

I am in exactly the same boat as you at the moment , I feel life is just drifting away and as I am doing nothing everybody else is doing something.

like you I know that little things can make a difference , going the gym , eating healthy and setting yourself little goals ...but I try them and they never last long.

The hard thing is it is up to you mainly , you have got to thing do you want to be 30+ thinking god I wasted my 20s doing nothing .

They doing things like getting up and hour early can help , making minor changes to your everyday life.

setting little goals that you achieve can make you feel good about yourself and want to you to do more.

as I said I hope you get the answer you are looking for because I am still searching for it .

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