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female
age
36-40,
*angelis
writes:My co-worker (head-chef of a cafe I work for part-time) seems to be flirting with me on and off. There's periods where he'll act really stroppy, and will ignore me completely. But at other times he'll be the one remembering minor details about me, where I'll catch him staring, relentless teasing, lock eyes and both start smiling and giggling, reach out to touch me.Now, he's got a girlfriend, and I have no intention to steal him away, and also; there's nothing wrong with flirting - it's a good means to pass the time and some people are flirtatious by natureBUT..First of all, he's not flirtatious by nature. And this behaviour has been going on for 10 months.It's becoming really emotionally straining for me, because the tension's building up and can't go anywhere. Surely, if it had just been for fun, it wouldn't have lasted this long? Doesn't he get frustrated, or bothered by it? I'm just really curious to know what's going on, because I'm going out of my mind with confusion.
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reader, batfink  +, writes (15 November 2014):
He's just a flirt, leave it at that.He's also in a relationship. Best avoided.
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