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Archived questions from: 17 May, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

He dumped me but seems emotional - does he still care about me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Is it true that if a guy gets emotional towards you after he dumps you, it means that he still cares about you ?. My ex recently dumped me, but he said some cruel things, so it seems like he hates me, but i read that sometimes guys act like that ...

She's hijacked my life and I feel like an empty shell!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I bumped into an old school who has just returned from travelling and started a new job in the same clinic as me. I was surprised as I have been working here for several years and she didn't mention it in any e mails. She moved away to Australia 3 ...

I feel bitter because girls like me now that I'm cute

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Firstly i an 20 yrs old, i am a guy i am employed. lets just say if girls were to rate me on my physical appearance i would get a 7.6 out of 10. however it wasn't always like that. in my younger days i would have probably gotten a 5 out of 10. i had ...

Why would photo of a girl in underwear be seen as porn but photo of a girl in swimsuit is ok?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - only real detail you need: I'm 17, shes also 17 and she never sent any pictures like this. so i don't understand something, about having pictures of my girl friend. Ok basically my friend said that if she ever sent me a picture to me through e-mail ...

Could my abusive past be the reason I'm desperate for a baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I was wondering if my abusive past is linked to my desperate need for a baby. For as long as I can remember up until I hit 12 I was sexually abused by my biological father. I was wondering if it could be causing me to want a baby so badly. I'm...

How can I shake off this good girl image?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Hi :) If anyone could help that would be lovely. Basically I have a problem that I've managed to create a good-girl image of myself and i want to get rid of it. I'm quite shy and not very outgoing around people I don't know very well, but im ...

About these teacher/student sex scandals...do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

17 May 2011 (?) - About these teacher/student sex scandals - do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments? do you think male teachers have it worse than female teachers? do male students get lucky? do female students get abused?...

Can you really ever stop loving someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Can you really get over someone and love another person? I ask because I am in my first relationship with a man, and I love him SO much I cannot imagine loving anyone like him ever again. However, he i much older and has had a long term relationship ...

Does playing 'hard to get' and being slightly unavailable keep a guy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1790 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a question - does playing hard to get work and how do you do it? I am always the very willing one, always available, always wanting to spend time with my guy, quite needy and I always end up losing the guy I'm with! I think I ...

Living with my boyfriend and have a young child together, but thinking of meeting up with my online guy. Should I meet him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years, we live together and have a 10 month old son. For about 7 years ive known a guy online, hes sweet and we phone each other constantly, before I met my boyfriend we were planning to meet up as we ...

I have gotten over depression, now how do I get over my poor social skills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Dear DC readers, Around 2years ago I hit depression and lost many friends and contacts. I stuck myself in my room and never saw anyone. Due to this, I lost confidence and selfesteem and my social skills deteriorated. Of course I battled with the...

My relationship and life has little meaning. Where do I go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - I had a rather troubled childhood which affected almost all areas of my life, particularly my schooling and studies. Along with our family always being in financial pitfalls, my parents weren’t really of the loving type, so I had to deal will all ...

I need help deciding on which love to follow: The love of my life or current girlfriend that I love dearly, equally!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Okay, I know I'm young, but I'm in love. My situation: I am 19 and in love with two young women. They are both 18. So let's call girl 1 Lisa and call girl 2 Tina. Lisa (girl 1) and I dated for a little over a year with the addition of a few mont...

Is it selfish that I don't want my boyfriend's 2 kids to live with us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has two kids from a previous marriage. One is 7, and the other one is 5. They are two very hyper boys. We have a 9 week old together. I never knew his boys were living with their mothers grandmother. So, not too long ago, she told my...

Will my boyfriend change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Is it possible to change somebody in some respect, i mean to say my boyfriend had many girlfriends in past but he did not settle and I don't want to fool myself with the hope that he will settle this time. But I want to know if there is a chance ...

He has asked me to his friend's wedding.....does he want something more from me? Or just a date who everyone will get along with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4524 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - this is just a random question but, What do it exactly mean when a guy asks a girl to be his date to his friends wedding? A guy I went to High School with and haven't seen since graduation (but through facebook we talk here and there) randomly...

Is my friend's ex trying to hurt her through me? What's going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - My best friend and I have been friends a really long time ( 4 years) , and she is a really good friend, but she was dating this guy for a while and ( he was controlling , and couldn't stand that she stood up for herself) I never met her boyfriend ...