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Archived questions from: 6 May, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm a newly wed and need advice about sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - My husband and i have been married for about two and a half months now, our wedding night was my first time being with anyone. for the first like two months our sex routine was the same. sex every night missionary, sometimes in the morning but it ...

I have a few relationship/sex questions.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

6 May 2011 (?) - Hey, this is a question for the girls (and guys, whatever) does size really matter? and Is there such a thing as too big or too small? and What would you rather have: poor relationship, great sex or great relationship, poor sex?...

Does my partner have commitment issues? Should I just bide my time and see what happens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hey all, I need some advice...I've been with my partner now for just over a year, everything is amazing, great, etc etc...we have a long distance relationship - we live 50 miles apart. I have to do all the driving all the time to see my partner ...

I still feel jealousy. I still feel pain. I still feel hatred. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - Firstly, I would like to say thanks to everyone who have helped me in here. I really appreciate all those valuable, useful and wonderful advisers. Especially those really harsh which makes realise how stupid I am to love someone who doesn't love ...

I want to live in Spain but its next to impossible and its breaking my heart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - This isn't a relationship question but my heart is breaking, so it might as well be. I'm an American but I'm in love with Spain and have my heart set on going there to live. I'm not putting USA down, but I've never identified with the culture...

I'm a sports person. How do I talk to "moshers?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - I'm having a party tomorrow night and there's the girl i like who may be coming, my best friend, another friend who both like each other but they don't know that and there two friends that are in their band a boy and a girl who go out are invited ...

He's a momma's boy. Should I have a say in their financial decisions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I think I'm dating a momma's boy. He jumps when she calls our house and asks for something :"can you give me a ride"? , Can you come over? can you give me some money?'' and if he says no to her she uses the "well you don't love then''. And the wors...

Deep down, I'm overwhelmed by anger. I need help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - What would cause someone to have constant feelings of anger? I'm angry all the time, and not sure as to whether I should talk to anyone about it. I worry that my friends would think I'm a horrible person and that my parents would worry about me, ...

How can you take on more, when you are already overwhelmed with pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I have a very complicated situation. I hope you can help. My life turned very challenging in the last year, and I don't know how to deal with things. Here is the short version of the story. I just lost my daughter, less than 1 year ago, from car...

I don't want to appear desperate. How do I start up a conversation with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - There is this girl in my graduating class in college that I really like. I don’t see her at all this semester but I would like to at least talk to her before graduating. Last month, I sent her a polite email — it was our first interaction — and ...

Why do privileged kids seek out the worst society has to offer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - American society is so degenerated that regardless if you have money to keep your kids in private schools and middle class neighborhoods they will still find drugs, engage in criminal activity, and hang around the wrong people. I HAVE SEEN IT! ...

I'm pregnant and I am not getting along with my fiancé. Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hi I need some help. My partner and I have been together for four years we are engaged and have set a date to be married. Yea I know I'm young I've heard it all before. Anyways he recently started at Uni and suddenly he has become all secretive. He ...

Do guys see single mums as easy and desperate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Was just wondering what is going on with men these days, would be good to have your thoughts on the following? I'm an attractive, intelligent single mum and have found most of the blokes that I come across just see me as a sex object. I don't dr...

Are there others who find themselves getting attached so quickly and if so, how do you handle it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - First off let me say that I'm in my early 20's and have had so many heartbreaks, I have lost count! I have adult ADHD which I think is what makes me so impulsive in relationships and makes me become attached to a guy way too fast and end up falling ...

Why all the attention from the attached women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - I work in a fairly large organisation and am a single guy, in my mid 40's, probably one of the few. Being in a company of this size there are many attractive women also working there. My 'problem' (if you could call it that) is that I always s...

What does it mean when a woman says she feels smothered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been together 19 years. We have not had a normal or regular sex life for most of it. We have talked the issue to death and yesterday she agreed she will see a therapist. (I always initiate and she always refuses.) My own pop psyc...

I've been told I'm fat and ugly all my life, how do I overcome this and not be so nervous for high-school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (?) - In 7th grade popular 9th grade boys mooed at me (like a cow to point out i was fat) i was 5'10 and 195 pounds. I ignored it at the time and it didn't bother me now looking back at the pictures i see what they were mooing about , they apologized ...

He doesn't think it will work when he moves away! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months tomorrow. Today he got drafted in hockey to a place that is 21 hours away. Lately he has been stressed and i havent talked to him for almost a week. He said he doubts it will work out when he moves. ...

No luck with girls and no sex life! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - I have no sex life and its really beginning to frustrate me. Not only don't I have a sex life now, but I've never really had one. I've only been with one girl one time before and that pretty much sums it up. Other than that it's just me ...

Does her family history of Diabetes mean she or our future children will develop Diabetes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - My future mother-in-law commented on how there is a lot of diabetic-related history on her side of the family. My fiancée eats a lot of junk food, but is really thin and exercises a lot... is there a disposition for her (or our future children)...

Should I send my ex some money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Ok so...my ex ("Michael") and I met when I was 14 and he was 21 and wow, it was something unexplainable. Beautiful four years and no, he never touched me or asked for anything that would hurt me. We broke up because of distance. I am now nineteen ...

Does my crush like me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Does my crush like me? He looks at me in class, sometimes does silly things when I'm looking, tries to attack me in a friendly way at break, and sometimes says hi to me. He knows I like him, and I have asked him, and I think he is just shy....

How do you position yourself when grinding in a club? And how do you deal with an erection??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4748 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - Where does it go when grinding? guys plz? Aright, its my first time going to a club, and all i'm hearing is about grinding. Where do you actually put your thing when grinding ?? And how do you deal with the hardon.....

Does showing possessiveness and jealousy flatter or anger your partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hello guys, if you show your boyfriend your jealousy that you do not want him to go to his bar even though he wants to go, does that make you controlling? or does that make him want to do more things that makes you upset? do you think, when i...

Staring at you, listening intently, and getting nervous while talking to you: are these signs of romantic interest or just politeness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - If you’re in a relationship, would you… stare at a woman, wait for her/make your way to talk to her (but you don’t flirt), catch her eyes, your body is turned towards her and you’re focused on the conversation, ask sincere questions and you listen ...