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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is there something wrong with me in not wanting a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I want to stay out of trouble,not having relationship with someone,and focus on my things. I do like chatting with friends and hanging out with them but not the kind of boyfriend and girlfriend. Sometimes it makes me mad that some of my friends ask ...

I miss my old best friend. How can I help her get back to being herself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Please, I know it is long but please advice!! My best friend is a different person now, it makes me sad seeing her like this i want to help her back to her old self. Recently a couple of her guy friends betrayed her and she's had bad experiences ...

We are close to calling it quits. I am asking generally, what works best to resolve marital conflicts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - How usually do people resolve a long standing conflict in a marriage? What is a healthy way to deal with conflict? what doesn't go away by itself? What else is possible to do, than talk about it? Me and my husband are close to ending it, beca...

Please help! She's stopped sending me signals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - During last semester a girl of my class started gazing at me which I noticed two or three times but I just turned my attention to some other work because initially I wasn't interested. Then I and my friend were talking about our group assignme...

How do I tell my family and friends about my BF without shocking them too much??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I recently got together with a guy who I really care for and like. He's like THE guy I've always wanted my bf to be like and the feeling's mutual for him as well. I enjoy the chemistry we share and I've never been more thankful to have met a guy ...

Should I accept my bf's faults or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hi, Are these reasons to end a relationship? *we only get to sleep together about 4 nights in every 2 months due to work commitments, even though we live 5 miles apart! His excuse is that i wake up far too early as he's a late sleeper and i fidge...

I'm worried that sex on the first date was a deal-breaker. Should I ask him where this is going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I recently went out with friends a few weeks ago and met a guy. We exchanged numbers. Got to know a bit about each other and made plans to get together. So we finally get together and end up sleeping together. I don't make it a habit of sleeping ...

Should I leave the husband I don't love and never have loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - My situation is a simple one: I married a man I've never loved. We met at 16, started dated at 18, we got married at 26 and now, at 33, I just want to end it all. He is my best friend, I like to hang out with him, but I never loved him. I kn...

He got real personal. Did I overreact? Should I meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - well, I've been single for 2 yrs now haven't really liked anyone since i split with my ex. Anyways I started talking to this guy on facebook well he talked to me first, we have arranged to meet up (in a public place I'm careful lol) but we haven't ...

Guys - do most of you struggle with committment and why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hello. It turns out that the guy I am with and have been with for coming up to 1 and ½ years may have some commitment issues. don’t get me wrong, he’s great, we love each other and we are still together and have no intention of breaking up but he ...

Should I stick around and get my needs met without any commitment? Or break it off and lose my best friend at the same time?

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19 May 2011 (F) - Hi everybody, I met this guy about 10-11 months ago. Let's call him D. So D approached me in a coffee shop and we instantly became very good friends. At the time I had just gotten out of a LTR with another woman, and was convinced I wasn't ever goi...

Questions on squirting...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - just curious, from the girls perspective...what does it feel like when a girl squirts? Does it feel like your just urinating. Also, does it squirt like really fast or just dribble out? I am just really curious! Thanks!...

The wedding is so close and I know I love this guy but why do I keep focusing on reasons why the wedding shouldn't happen when the date is so close and there is a kid involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - The man I am with treats me very well, and treats my 7 year old kid just the way I would want a step parent to treat her, but there is no heat in our relationship anymore and I am SOOO infatuated with a guy I used to work with and constantly see him ...

Is it normal for guys to have crushes on other women even in a dedicated long-term relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - So I've had a pretty rough past two weeks here. My boyfriend of two years (lived with for a bit over a year) just broke up with me after a big incident. We'd decided we decided to move in too soon, and we figured a break would be ideal. We still ...

Friends and drinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - This may seem like an odd problem but...no matter how much I drink I just cannot get drunk! I started university last year and before that thanks to the friends I had and a fairly strict upbringing I'd never really drank alcohol in large amounts. My ...

Was he interested, in his strange way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - It's going to be a very long post, so take a deep breath and dive in. I recently have finished my BA after a long delay. During the last semester I was studying with - lets call him D. He is a lecturer (in the country where I live we don't name the...