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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Does everything need to be close to perfect before you propose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - I am in love with my girlfriend and she says she is in love with me. However, our relationship is not without problems. There are still a few complex issues we are working through with the help of a therapist, some of which are not directly...

I got into trouble with her in the past. Should I make contact again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I had a friend for about 20 years and often had holidays and nights out I used to defend her with some of the men verbally. She then met another female friend she worked with and we often all used to go out but then trouble seemed to appear-the ...

Stunningly beautiful girl, 28, never had a relationship: red flag??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - Dear Aunts: I met this girl who seems real nice, sweet and down-to-earth from Europe (Poland). She seems to like me, flirts a hell of a lot, and I been thinking of asking her out. She is stunning, does some modeling, is here on a work visa. On...

Guys, do you like tall girls?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Question for the guys, Do guys prefer a woman to be tall? Not taller than them, but not too short? Why do some guys dislike dating short women? Is is to do with the sex? lol ...

I am crushed. I read what she wrote about my size and don't how I am going to work this, or our new LDR, out with her.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - I need help with a difficult situation. I met a girl about three months ago through a work friend and we hit it off. We have been dating since then and I feel as if the relationship is the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me. ...

How do I deal with this situation with my ex? I cant move away from the area, but I cant go out and live my life because of him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Many years ago I divorced the husband of my children. For years he cheated as he travelled with his job and he gave me an STD twice. He was jealous and possesive and played mind games. I eventually filed for divorce and from the day he received the ...

My partner cheated on me but I do see he had his reasons, can the trust be re-built?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Ive been in a relationship with a man for 11 years now, for the past 5 years i got diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, i have been very ill and over medicated on many meds, and when my partner is home on leave from working at sea, all i do is sleep ...

Why can't I forget about my lover and move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hi I would really like some help. I have been having an emotional and physical affair with a co worker for 18 months. We started as friends and got close over a period of time. We have had many ups and downs during our time together, argume...

What should my role be in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I was a kind of most innocent and true persons. When i got a job in a new city, i found my coleagues trying to exploit my weaknesses, viz. weaping easily, new to the city, having no relatives and house etc., at the same time undergoing the biggest ...

How can I talk to him about not trusting him anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My ex left me for someone else and shattered my heart completely. Was my first broken heart in life. Since then, we have been trying to reconcile but every so often I lose it a bit. If he takes too long to call back, text back, or if I feel he is ...

Am I just scared to be vulnerable again? Am I trying to avoid love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - So I used to see a guy named "D" a year ago during the summer. We were friends (more like acquaintances) for three years prior. He had just gotten out of a relationship (of 3 years) when I started seeing him. He told me they had broken up 2 weeks ...

What is "Masculine"? - A body language question

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - Hello all, Allright guys. Amidst all the serious questions on relationships, dating, marriage, break-ups etc, I thought of giving you guys a breather. This is a sort of trivial question, but am sure it can make for a casual chat topic. I am a...

Do you think you can tell what a person is like by their photo?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - I am just curious: do you think you can tell what a person is like by looking at their photo? I do a lot of online dating and sometimes contact a girl by their profile photo...but I am thinking this might be a silly approach, since often you ...