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writes:hi... I wondered if you could help me?I have trouble with being faithful in a relationship.Every time I'm in a relationship i always destroy it by cheating and lyingI wondered if you can tell me the best way to stop this? Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 October 2008):
 You're still quite young to settle down with 'the one'
When you've done your living and experimenting, you will meet someone that clicks with you, and not want to cheat on them. Myabe you dont like the thought of being single at the moment, so get into just any relationship because the guy is interested, but then get bored and cheat when the next one comes along, and the circle continues. Why not stay single for a bit, have some fun (sensibly/protected) and chill out a bit, and hold back and avoid getting into full on relationships for the time being?
I dont know, it could work.
C xxxxx
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 I think your problem will be saved when you find somebody who's right person for you. Obviously you're not mature enough and you haven't find a that person yet.If you're truely in love with someone, you don't see other guys. Perhaps you need more fun and flirting right now. Which is not necessarily bad thing by the way. It hurts when somebody's cheating on you, but you probably don't know that because you've never been on the same positions like your ex guys. Do you really want to hurt somebody who cares about you? It's just unfair, don't you think so? Point is, stop cheating or stop having relationship and wait for somebody who you truely love.Best wishes.
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reader, michelleAKAmandi  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 The way to stop it is to just stop. You are the only one that can stop and no matter what we say, unless you really want to, you're not going to. It's great that you can admit that you have this problem. That's the first step, the second step is to make yourself stop. It's a matter of saying NO!!! and sticking to it, no matter what.
If you feel that you absolutely can not stop lying and cheating, then don't commit to anyone and let whomever you are with know that you don't want a committed relationship.
Think about this if you feel like cheating or lying...
if you find that "ONE" person that is meant for you and you do this to them, they are lost... gone... and you are left hurt and alone.
This in turn will happen to you, so be careful and think about what you are doing and you should be fine.
I hope this helps...
Take care,
Michelle
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