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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:This guy and I have been hooking up for 8 months. He knows that I have feelings for him, but he said that he doesn't have feelings for me and is still in love with his ex. When he saw me walking/talking with my ex-boyfriend and other guy friends, he got jealous, wouldn't make eye contact with me, and pretended like he didn't know me. If the guys weren't around then he'd act normal and say hi to me. Does he have a right to be jealous especially since he said he doesn't have feelings for me? Do you think he has feelings for me since he's acting jealous?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your feedback! I appreciate hearing both your thoughts on this situation. I agree with both of you that he's selfish and he has absolutely no right to be jealous..regardless of whether it's human nature or not. He decided that he didn't want to be in a relationship with me, and the way I see it is if he didn't care or have some feelings for me then he wouldn't get jealous at all. He wouldn't give a shit (pardon my language). I think Q's right..sometimes I'm wondering if he's denying his feelings for me because he can write me off if ever his ex-gf wanted to get back with him. He can sit and wait for her for a million years. It doesn't make sense when his ex has already told him that she never wanted to be with him ever again. I don't know what part of that says there's still a chance...but to each their own.
Thanks so much again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): THis guy is selfish. He does not want you all to himself but he does not want you to have friends. Ignore him and enjoy your life. It is his loss.
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