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writes:Iv been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months now and I have to say that I am totally in love with him, im 28 and have never felt this way before.He is such an amazing person and is so nice to me, my family and friends, I can hardly beleive that iv been so lucky to meet someone as great as him.The thing is I want to tell him I love him, I show it as does he but we have never said 'I love you' to each other. Im just worried that ill ruin everything by saying the L word at this early stage. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 October 2008):
Do it!
It's been 3 months now. It's not like you are proposing marriage.
If you are really scared then just do it at the end of the next phone call, as in "ok, see you then, I love you, Bye" then hang up.
The best way to do it is just wait till you are having a Moment and staring into his eyes and then just take a leap of faith.
You can't Ruin everything by saying it, you may just create some embarrasment if he is not ready to say it back.
Good Luck!! xx
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