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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How do you deal with the regret, the guilt and the feeling of being ashamed and used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - I am having trouble dealing with the fact that I slept with my ex bf (I was a virgin before I met him). At the time I trusted him and loved him, but soon after we did it, he turned into a really abusive person. We only did it probably 3 times then ...

What do these dreams mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - I've been having these wierd dreams lately and I'm wondering if they have any meaning. I've been with my husband for 7 years, married 3 of those 7 years. Without getting into extensive detail, he has hurt me so much over the past 2 years, mentally ...

Why do I feel so paranoid when he is so good to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - I know a lot of people will read this and instantly get confused and maybe even mad at the idea that i feel so paranoid and insecure..but i can't change the way i feel. I have the most amazing boyfriend, he does mean the world to me and at 20 I a...

I have a really funny problem but I'll say it anyway.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - I have a really funny problem but i'll say it anyway. My best friend who is a boy i have known for about 3 years now. We are so close that we could pass for brother and sister. We talk loads when we're alone but when there's another person there he...

Is my Girlfriend a bit false, its really getting me down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 January 2008 (M) - I love my girlfriend but most of the time i'm with her she really annoys me, particularly when she is around her mum or speaking to her friends. Her and her mum are always at each others throats and disagreeing and nothing is straight forward...

I'm an artist, but men see me as a sex object. How can I make them take me seriously?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - I want to advance in two creative fields, music and writing, but when I try to ask advice to males in those fields or send them my work, they often seem to think I'm trying to "come on" to them or make a pass or something. This isn't true, as I love ...

We don't talk about our feelings. Please advise

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 260 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - Need advices from ladies who have dated /are dating Xhosa men (please understand me, dont have anything against any nation). I mm in a relationship with a Xhosa man for nearly 8months now.I love him so much. Things were fine at the beginning until ...

Why is it that I can only get aroused through imagination, and not in reality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - Im an 18 year old virgin. My problem is that i can only get aroused by fantasy/imagination... as in imagining myself having sex with certain people that im involved with.. however, when I am actually with them, I just cant get aroused for some ...

Was he doing it for longer than he admitted to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - Hi this time last year I had learnt that my boyfriend now my fiance had been making calls to sex lines. I was drinking a lot and he had just lost his Nan and we had a lot of money toubles. At the time I was cut up however after a lot of thought and ...

I want to be friends! He wants to be action man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - ok, is it just me or can me and women not be friends unless the have some sexual intercourse? i have this guy whom i attended college with and he is an awesome person, but everytime we hang out its like all he is worried about is getting a little ...

I feel totally alone, and I need advice on how I can cope!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - I have just broken up with my boyfriend. I love him more than anything and i have known him for over a year, but seeing as we used to live together and work together, we saw each other 24/7. I feel as though he is part of me and i am nothing without ...

Will I ever get over my girlfriend leaving me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

18 January 2008 (M) - How does one accept that he must let go of somebody they love dearly? My girlfriend left me, after she decided that university would come between us. I have been supported by my good friends over the past couple of months, but I wonder if I'll ever ...