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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Can fighting/arguments be good for a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi guys. I just have a general relationships question that I've been pondering for quite some time now and I'd really like some outside oppinions. Okay so, do you guys find that fighting/arguments are helpful or detrimental to a relationship? Is it ...

I worked hard, she let go and is happy, I'm hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - I came out of a relationship just over 4 months ago. I guess my ex just decided she could do better and wanted to enjoy the freedom of being single. Since she split with me it's felt like there's been a dark cloud hanging over me. People have told ...

I bring it up and she argues, Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - I've been with my g/f for about 3 years now. Everything was great until about a year ago. Now, unless I initiate the sex there is nothing. But the lack of sex isnt really my issue. Its that she just really shows no kind of interest in me or sex. We ...

Boy in class sexually harassing me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl, and i need some advice. This boy in my class has been sexually harrassing me again after he was suspended. he touched my bum. but the thing that scared me was when he zipped down my zipper. what do u think that he was trying ...

I feel uncomfortable when he touches me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - This may sound odd, but I've had an interest in my accounting teacher for awhile now. He has always seemed nice to me, but only recently has it seemed like he's been intereted in me, which worries me. He asks me to stay after school to help correct ...

I don't want to make things weird between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - okay,i have a problem, this boy likes me but i like his friend, and his friend likes me and asked me out but i dont want to hurt the other boy because we are like best friends and i dont want to make things weird between the three of us...help ...

Why don't I fancy anyone anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - about a year ago I really fancied a guy but he didn't even know i existed in that way. A little while before that I had a huge 6 month long crush on a fit mate and he never liked me or even considered me. Before that I have had crushes on countless ...

20 years old...in love with a 51 y/o who wants a future with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I'm a 20 year old gal in love with a 51 year old man,who wants a future with me, what must i do? please help!!!!!...

Can I trust my ex even after she stole from my mum??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - hi, Me and my ex split in October of last year; we split because i found out that she was stealing from my mum. I confronted her and she denied it. She ran off to her mums with our 1 year old little girl and said i couldn't see her again so i w...

What can I do to earn extra money and still spend enough time with my kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Quick question. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I could do on the weekends to earn extra money but still spend time with my children? I already work full time and my evenings and weekends are usually spent cooking, cleaning and tending ...

My boyfriend wants me to remain jobless, but I want to work. How do I get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hey I was wondering if I could get some help from some people to help me solve my problem. My Boyfriend and I want to get married. We aren't getting married anytime soon and know mostly everything we want. He wants to graduate and be a lawyer....

I can't look at him the same way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - well im fourteen and lost my virginity already iv not had any regrets,but ever since da day it happend i cant look at da boy da same way, and it is not in a good way, i dont like him anymore, i need major help...

Fallen for my friend and afraid to tell her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Ok, i will try to make this short. I have a friend who i talk to everyday, she shares her feelings with me. She has this big crush on another person and tells me all bout it. How happy she is and stuff like that. The other person is messing with her ...

Two girls are after me but I only like one

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - i'm 11 and their is this girl at school and she's liked me for about 6 months and i've had a few feelings for her but then there's this other girl who likes me and she's after me and now shes going through puberty she told me and she gets really ...

Threesome...the ins and outs!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - This is embarrassing. I am an attractive woman and my boyfriend and I have decided on a threesome with another guy. We've got that part settled. My boyfriend says that since this is a first for us all (the 2nd guy too) we should make sure what we ...

Love question about being happy in relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Is God really wants us to be happy with someone? if its true ,why are there so many people divorcing all the time. It's almost looks like ,that is not really the game,of happiness, but more of the game of misery. Love is so beautiful., but the end ...

I do stupid things, don't want to loose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - So me an my boyfirend been togather for 4 monthes now we moved in togather like rigth away an it was ture love at first sigth every one said i was crazy my firends was like you don't even know this guy an i'm always the one to think things out but ...

I hate cheating, but why do I do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, WHY when I'm drunk to I exit reality and hook up with someone.. ALWAYS. I know its wrong too... Self control sucks. Like I just lose it, and I'm tired or it. I'm not partying anymore, I love my boyfriend, can ...

Ask him before it's too late, what's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Recently i have been talking to this new guy i just met recently. he is 2 years older than me and is handsome. so far he has proven to me that he knows how to treat a girl by taking me out to eat 2 times and going to the movies together and treating ...

Any thoughts of his behavior

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I broke up with my boyfriend and at the end of November. He was kind of rude to me at a party I saw him at. I asked him if I had done something to make him mad and he said I had not but he was bummed out about something else. We have ...

Two people in relationships kiss, touch another person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship that is bad-the past month and a half we have almost quit it about seven times. The other day, I went to watch a football game at my friend's house and we all ended up drinking too much and a guy kissed/touched me, as I did ...

How long to get over someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - How long does it take to get over someone? Its been really hard for me to try to forget about this guy...I haven't talked to him since October 14 2007 I know its been a very long time but I can't help it I still think about him every once in a whi...

My wife doesn't contribute much to marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Who's responsible for doing what? I am having a very hard time understanding what is suppose to go on in my marrage. I am married almost four years and I get frustrated because I feel my wife does not contribute enough to this marrage. On the ...

What might this boy be thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi, just thought i would share this little problem i have. Basically I have known this boy since i was 11, met in secondary school and became really close. People used to say it was obvious we liked each other and we were cute together. we wo...

I've been seeing one of his mates for 5 months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years and we recently got engaged! But he doesnt know that I have been seeing one of his mates behind his back for about 5 months!I know what I am doing is wrong and we have tried to stop it so many times but we ...

I feel my parents see me as a fattie looser

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5940 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hey...so bascially im a girl, pretty depressed cuz my brother is doing a sport and so is my sister, and that is pretty much all my parents talk about at all. when were having dinner, its all they talk about and it gets on my nerves!!! i mean, i dont ...