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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I just miscarried. When will everything go back to normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - hello again all, i recently just miscarried (found out today) and i want to waste little time getting back in the game. So is there anything i need to know that might happen when ttc after miscarriage? will i not ovulate this month? will i ha...

I'm confused as to when pre-ejaculation occurs as I have heard various things. Any advice??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - If my boyfriend and I had sex and he was inside me not even a minute before putting a condom on, is there a chance there was pre-cum? I am confused also as to when pre-ejaculation occurs. I've heard various things. Please help....

I want to know what the limits are in a heterosexual female friendship in regards to physical contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - How close should best friends be without looking wierd? How to show our love as friends, but not in any sexual way. In regards to: - hugging - kissing -holding hands - sleeping together - wanting to be close to each other - etc....

How can I flirt with a guy and be sure he likes me back??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I know this might sound a bit silly but here goes: how do i flirt with a guy, who i am not sure if he like me back...and what are some signs that a guy likes you back?? Plzzzzzzzzzz help me plzz...

What can I do about this customer that asked me out??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I have a little problem. I work as a cashier at a restaurant and a client came in today and started taking asking me bout when I go on lunch. He and I did speak before when he asked me about another girl who used to work there. After he asked if...

The thought of making love to my husband repulses me. Should I end the marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I have been married to the "perfect" man for 15 years. We do not have children together (he has had a vasectomy) but he has children from his first marriage although they are now grown up. I have a job that I love (fitness instructor) but does not ...

How can I become a more socieable person without being too happy-happy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Seven months ago I had a social life, a girlfriend and things were going well. Sort of. Beneath that, I was always rather discontent. The relationship was turning sour, and after high school ending my old best friend and I were drifting apart. S...

Should I tell my new girl I have just come out of a big relationship??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - I just broke up with my long time girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. And although we've been together for a very long time, i fell out of love with her for about a month now. Now, i have gone out on dates with this other girl that i really like, an...

I've changed and she knows I have but do you think there is any chance for us??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Sorry this may be a little long, but i want to put in as much detail so you guys can understand my situation and to better help give me advice. Me and my ex gf dated for 18 months. but a couple months ago she found out i was flirting on the internet...

How can you be sure somebody loves and cares for you before you have sex with them??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - How can you know if a guy really loves and cares for you before you have sex with him? I have read that one should hold out a little longer until one is sure...but can one really be sure?? Only after the act can one know what the other person is ...

Do our flirty messages mean that when we meet up it's a date??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Just wondering about something. There's a guy I like. We flirt a lot over the internet - don't worry we've met each other. We met ages ago and have kept in touch via internet. We send each other flirty messages. He lives in another city tho...

How do I deal with this younger guys infatuation??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - How can I help a guy half my age who is completely infatuated with me get out of this?...

How can I rescue this potential relationship after I came off so clingy??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I'm interested in this boy, and up till yesterday i thought he was interested in me. Yesterday, i had really bad PMS, and was feeling really insecure about my body and life. I mentioned this to him, and now my friend thinks i'll have come off lo...

How can I convince my friend I am serious about her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Ok so I have this friend who I really like and she knows I like her but when I try to give her hints on how much she doesn't take me serious. She don't think she will be able to find someone that likes her a lot. So my question is how can I tell her ...

Guys please help me and tell me what turns a guy on.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

11 January 2008 (?) - Hey guys, I really need your advice. What turns guys on? I love giving my boyfriend oral, and having sex with him, but I feel so scared incase I hurt him when I 'explore'. What is it that hurts if someone kicks your testicles? How can I avoid givi...

Is he falling in love with me or does he just lust after me sexually??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I'm having a few problems with a teacher of mine. I am 17, he is much older and married. I like him very much but I have difficulty understanding his feelings for me. He can be very kind and thoughtful and very complimentary; he has at times gi...

2 Years Younger Than me, And My Boss' Son. Do You Rekon I Should tell Him How I Feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Hiya, OKaaay, Im 16 and I like my boss' son who is nearly 15. Not really sure if he likes me or not but even though he's younger than me he doesn't really act it and he's quite mature. I really like this guy but dont know if it's a problem beca...

How can I get over my driving instructor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, My problem is silly but i'm finding it really heartbreaking at the moment. Recently I learnt how to drive, I had a really great instructor who made me feel good about myself, gave me loads of confidence and I could talk to him about an...

Why is I seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - why is i seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?...

Got up to answer phone and he noticed the condom had bust. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Hi In December my bf and i were having sex. We had just started and he probably stroked me about 10 times and the phone rang so i got up to answer it, he then discovered that the condom has bust. He didnt come and wasnt close to coming. Is it po...

What are the signs my bf could be addicted to porn??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I recently moved in with my boyfriend that I met in military training. I just recently noticed that he looks at internet porn ALL THE TIME. The wierd thing is that he doesn't try to hide it like most guys I hear about. Usually something like thi...

We have said if we were both single we'd be dating...so should I stick around and see what happens??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Theres this girl that i met about a month ago. She is simply amazing, but she has 1 problem. she has a boyfriend. We've talked about our feelins about each other. We both like each other, and if we were both single wed be dating. She's asked me...

Is there a nice way to say "lets just be friends"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Is there a nice way to say "lets just be friends"? I just spoke to a female friend who I have known most of my life. We have been great friends through grade school and high school, and have a lot in common. In 2002, I left for college. She is a yea...