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writes: I love my girlfriend but most of the time i'm with her she really annoys me, particularly when she is around her mum or speaking to her friends.Her and her mum are always at each others throats and disagreeing and nothing is straight forward with them. I basiacally walk into an arguement in her house but then 5 minutes later they are talking normally as if nothing has happened but then an hour later they will continue bickering about the most petty things. Nothing seems straight forward and both are stubborn and don't communicate properly. Its really strange.And with her friends on the phone she is so over the top when she speaks and all fluffy and girly and laughing and its not what she is really like.My main question is why all of a sudden after 2 years and I begginning to get irritated? Is it normal? Do you think she gets irritated with me? Reply to this Question |
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reader, scythe  + ♥, writes (19 January 2008):
 Well, as for the fighting between mother and daughter - its totally normal. Me and my Mom are like that.
And as for her acting different around friends? Well she has a different sort of relationship with them to what you have with her. Of course she will act differently. Although it is annoying when people act REALLY different.
I'm not sure why you are getting annoyed recently. Maybe you are being dissillusioned? She's not as perfect as you imagined?
Dunno. Anyway, best wishes for you both. Hope you can sort something out.
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX  +, writes (19 January 2008):
 We all have our Pros & cons. Everyone has sonething about them that someone else can't stand. You just haave to focus on the good instead of the bad. Mothers and duaghters will argue, we are genetically ennginerred to do just that!!! Let the margue when they want to and bond when they want to it is between them after all!
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (18 January 2008):
 Nobody is perfect, so there probably is something about you she can't stand either!
It often takes time for us to realise that the one we love has faults. It's only natural! Early on in a relationship, we are blinded not only by love, but also by the fact that we don't really worry about the little things, because they don't immediately affect us.
Now your relationship is a bit more serious and you know each other better, you might need to know that she is sincere with you.
The truth is, we all wear several masks when dealing with people. It's down to you to make her feel she can be open with you, but she might still feel her guard is threatened by her friends and family.
Basically, as long as it doesn't affect your relationship, I wouldn't worry too much. Although you could suggest she talks more openly with these other people.
All the best!
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