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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm so shy, the thought of meeting people terrifies me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - I need help to get over my crippling shyness cos its ruining my life. i'm meant to be going on a trip soon with my friend and she has just emailed me to say we are meeting her friends and travelling with them, she says there's quite a lot of them ...

How do I get motivated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - How do I get myself to work? I know that I need to work, but I just cannot get motivated. I've tried to deal with this myself but I haven't suceeded and it's really harming my relationship with my mother (I'm an only child, she's a 1 parent family) ...

How can anyone make her 'wise up'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 January 2008 (M) - I have had a lot of problems with a girl which im starting to think i was dumb to ever try to have a relationship with. Well she keeps going back to her ex even tho its so easy to tell that he doesnt care about her. Well he got her pregnant and she ...

He wants his money back - do I pay up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - I had a male business associate and we unfortunately became intimate two years ago. Four months into the relationship he offered to lend me money for a breast augmentation. We had a tumultuous love affair and after his obsessions became apparent, I ...

How do I get counselling without my parents knowing about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - hi after the sexual attacks that have happened to me in my past, and the names my parents shouted and called me weni told them really upset me and i will never tell them anything again. i now have my father in particular but along with the rest of ...

Is it best to pass your driving test before having a baby?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - hi there, as you know i asked previously that i would like to have a baby with my new boyfriend and i am considering it as we are getting our own house and ive got my driving test at the end of the month and my boyfiend earns alot as he works two ...

Heartbroken that this guy loves somebody else...but what is wrong with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - Ok, I really like this boy i thought finaly i have found someone who seems decent has no girlfreind and i have a chance with i started talking to him about 2 days before new years day. So about last week it was going great but then he had some...

Is it ok to be involved with your 1st cousin?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

8 January 2008 (M) - Is is ok to be with your 1st cousin ? i live somewhere where it is legal, but is it really acceptable in todays society, please give me your honest opinion. Thankyou....

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

8 January 2008 (M) - This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

Why do I find it hard to get over people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 January 2008 (M) - How come I find it hard to get over people? My last 2 girlfriends I'm having difficulty getting over and I still miss them (well, one!) and want her back. The counsellor said that it may be because I lost my Dad. What do you think?...

Do I contact him or should I wait for him to contact me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - I met a really great guy online. He's a few years older than me, divorced - I was never married, just engaged, though both our partners cheated on us - both these relationships ended about 5 years ago. I have a kid which this guy has known about si...

If he's so attracted to me, why doesn't he want to get physical?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - I've been VERY close with my guy friend for about 5 months(we seen each other EVERY DAY and never tire!). We've talked about dating, or fooling around at least, but when the kiss that I expected NEVER came, I called him on it. (I've tried once ...

I can't get over the thought of her having sex with this other guy. How can I get it out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 January 2008 (M) - Hello, I really need some help. It all started 2 years ago when the love of my life walked into my house. I fell in love and we got together. My life was great for about 2 months until she started acting different. And she ended up breaking up w...

Do men need 3 seconds of eye contact before speaking to a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 year old virgin and I've never had a relationship with a man, I don't know what to do, because I belong to the most shyest people in the world. All (3) guys which want me to go out were uninteresting for me (for some time I tried to...

My mother says the Bible does not approve of interracial relationships. How can I prove her wrong?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - Im engaged to a black man, and I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him, hes just like me in every way. My father is racist, and my mother claims that she is just "against marrying out of your race" because of her "religious ...