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writes: Just wondering about something. There's a guy I like. We flirt a lot over the internet - don't worry we've met each other. We met ages ago and have kept in touch via internet. We send each other flirty messages. He lives in another city though - not too far from the one I live in, but defo not right on my doorstep. I'm going to be in his city in a short while and that we should meet up for a drink and catch up. I'm wondering if because of all the flirting that has gone on, this constitutes as a date? He's offered to let me stay at his flat in his spare room as there is a chance it will be a two day visit.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 You may flirt online but when you meet in the real world ,it may not be the same. You could be more reserved .
You can consider it a date. You will be meeting him in real time.
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reader, AuteurMarie  +, writes (13 January 2008):
I think a more important question is: If you dig the guy and the guy digs you, who really cares if you officially label the meet-up a "date"? Meet the guy. Catch up. Enjoy yourself. See what happens. Leave the label gun at home (it takes up too much room in your purse and only gets in the way).
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008): I think if you are staying there anyway, and he has offered you a place to stay, technically it isnt a date. But on the other hand, if you have spare time and he asks you for a drink or a meal, then that would be more of a date. And also, he didnt have to offer you the room, so date or not he must be happy to spend time with you.
Enjoy it!
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