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Guys please help me and tell me what turns a guy on.

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Question - (11 January 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys,

I really need your advice. What turns guys on?

I love giving my boyfriend oral, and having sex with him, but I feel so scared incase I hurt him when I 'explore'. What is it that hurts if someone kicks your testicles? How can I avoid giving him this pain?

And also, what is it I can do to really turn guys on? Is the head really as sensitive as everyone makes out it is? What other places could I touch or massage to give my guy pleasure?

Thank you for all your help :]

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntThe Penis No No guide.

No..

hard pinching,

drawing of blood

Flicking.

biting off.

slicing and dicing

much the same goes for the testies.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (13 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntGuys are turned on by visuals. Dress sexily, low cuts and short mini with ample assets showing. You do not have to do anything else except smile sweetly and sexily at them. All the guys will get turned on.

Be gentle with his testicles. Don't squeeze too hard , it can be painful. When his penis is erect, you can manhandled it but not when it is soft and placid.

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2008):

xapathyxrebornx agony auntHey hun, i know i'm female but i have a few examples.

1) Whilst lying in bed....or anywhere we are...i start stroking his side, very gently and whisper into his ear, i kiss his neck, i also breathe onto his neck....

by the time we get to this point he starts exploring me, i can make certain noises which works every time =]

2) my boyfriend says i look sexy in everything i wear butttt Try maybe sexy underwear? or sexy clothes - don't try and look like a slut, but dress up nicely for him =]

thats all i can suggest atm =]

message me if you like =] x

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A female reader, Butterfly816 Canada +, writes (12 January 2008):

You have to let him give in to the fingers (IN THE CONDOM) up the butt while you give him a BJ....it's called massaging the prostate..so if he's on his back - suck it up and put your fingers in there and massage toward his front-side and he will go CRAZY!!!! I know it sounds gross but try it, I got this off the Saturday night sex show and it friggin works!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008):

I think I might have misread the first part, but did you imply you kick him in the testicles?

As far as turning a guy, just cuddle with him, massage his crotch area a bit, then he'll be all turned on and you can go from there.

And the head is the only sensitive part of a guy you really need to focus on if you want to please him. And it is pretty sensitive.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008):

actually it depends on the appreciation of the boys.as a girl i believe that being real and simple can tun them on.It's important to hem also the humor and charm.they want to be challenge and one more thing they want somebody who is simply smart and real.

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