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writes:I have a little problem. I work as a cashier at a restaurant and a client came in today and started taking asking me bout when I go on lunch. He and I did speak before when he asked me about another girl who used to work there. After he asked if I'm working tomorrow and what shift he aid maybe I could join him for coffee tomorrow. I did not reply because the manager called me. When he came back a little later he asked what I'm working next week and then said maybe we can go to the movies and then left. Only after he left I relised what that he had kinda asked me out.I think he is in his 30s but I'm not sure. I have a bf and wanna tell this guy no but I cave easily and this guy does not seem to take no for an answer.I also think he is friends with my boss because he comes in everyday and talks to him.What must I do?Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe did not come when i was on lunch he only arrived later. He greeted me saying hi gorgoeous. Then on his way out he said I should not hide from him he only wants friendship.
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reader, Dawnie  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 You do not have to go out with this man if you do not want to. Just be polite and decline when he asks you out, or if you want to go for coffee. You don't have to be rude, just firm in your answer. Even if he is friends with your boss, so what? you are an employee at this restaurant and all your boss is bothered about is that you do your job, nothing else.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 If you don't like to go , you need not have to go. Just ignore him .You only work for the boss. He cannot force you to go with that man . I don't think the boss would do anything to you over his overtures. He is just trying his luck.If he troubles you , you can tell your boss about it, if it is affecting your sanity and your work.Your boss may not like to lose a good worker.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): Well next time mention your boyfriend, if he doesn't know that your not single this may be why he is trying. But after telling him if he continues to persist just politely say 'No thanks' because you don't seem like the sort of person who wants to be rude.But if he doesn't get the message you need to tell your boss. You may be beautiful and he can't resist ;], but at his age he should really leave you alone and to me he sounds a bit dodgy so I hope you'll be ok and I would not trust to go out for coffee/cinemas with him.Good Luck
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