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How do I please him before I give it a go?

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Question - (19 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I recently met someone very special, he is a Brit, I am American, and I am very, very excited to have sex with him for the first time. But, I am 31 years old, and I have never been with an uncircumsized man before. He knows that, and I think it makes him a bit nervous that I wont like it or something. It seems silly to worry over such a small thing, when I really care about him, but I am a little nervous that I will do something wrong and hurt him! So, I dont want to make a big deal over it, but I was wondering if some of you out there (I know lots of you are Brits!) could give me some advice on the best techniques for oral sex and hand jobs and such... with an uncircumsized man, i am used to slobbering all over it to make it wet so everything glides easier, but i guess with him, i wont need to since the foreskin slides over the member itself. i feel kind of dumb asking, but i would like to get a basic idea of how best to please him before i give it a go... though i am sure if i have any trouble he will help me out!! thanks for any advice and tips.... :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

Each time, before you get down to business, take a

shower together and make sure he's clean under the

skin. Then he won't gross you out when you suck him off. Take time to discover how the extra skin makes him easy to stroke and manipulate. Here' s hoping he's a

slow and gradual penetrator, who gradually builds up

to climax. If you use a condom, his being uncut may

not make any difference. If you don't, there is a possibility that you will intercourse different, even more

enjoyable.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

Just do what feels right, if he doesnt like what you're doing, he'll sure let u know!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007):

Even though he's got a foreskin, it still needs plenty of lubrication, so slobber away just as you've done before.

His 'helmet' will be somewhat more sensitive than with a circumcised one, so treat it a little more gently than you would otherwise do.

Phil

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A female reader, troyssweetie Australia +, writes (19 October 2007):

troyssweetie agony aunti am american and i have never been with an uncircumsized man until my current boyfriend who is australian. i just did what i normally do. he said it was the best oral sex he has had in his life so i wouldn't even worry about it if i were you.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (19 October 2007):

The differences will be so small you'll wonder why you even asked this question. Go for it.

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