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writes:Yesterday, I got dumped by my boyfriend of 2 months. It doesn't sound like a long time at all, but I fell in love with him so quickly.It was a long distance relationship and he was depressed because we didn't see enough of each other. So he said anyway.Its come to the point where I can't sleep because when I do I will dream about him, I can't eat because I feel sick when I do and disgusted with my appearance and I can't stop thinking about him. Everything is reminding me of him.He was also my first serious relationship and it just seems so hard to stop myself thinking who is he with? Has he found someone else? Does he even care about how this is effecting me?I just need some advice on what to do. I'm going crazy.
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reader, ohwoesme  +, writes (21 October 2007):
time is like they most healing thing in teh world...it hurt's but it sometimes is they only cure. The hard part is trying to work on yourself and be secure with yourself before you meet another..don't get me wrong it is not safeguard against being hurt but..it can help with your judgement of who you want to go out on a limb for..emotionally..in matter's of the heart..it can be extremely difficult but hoping it comes with age..first cut is alway's the deepest...stay strong and move on....but do yourself a favor...don't compare the next one with they ex one..you never know what's inside an unopened book...
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 two months is not long enough to be hurt a month from now the next guy you meet will replace him easy good luck
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reader, cd206 +, writes (19 October 2007):
 It's natural to feel sad about the end of your first serious relationship but it won't last forever. Let your friends be there for you to cheer you up. Keep as busy as possible and soon you will feel better. Don't beat yourself up for not sleeping or eating. Eat regardless of how you feel. You won't actually be sick. In fact the longer you go without eating the more than feeling sick will become a physical problem and less of a mental one. As for sleeping a lot of people have things that stop them sleeping. Don't focus on the fact that you're not sleeping. Turn your clock around so you can't see it and tell yourself that you're lying in bed and therefore resting so it doesn't matter if you're not asleep because you're still getting something out of being in bed. Soon these symptoms will fade and you'll start to feel normal again.
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