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*ndrew loves hali
writes:last night my girlfriend and i were talking and she randomly asked if i like people who smoke and my answer was it depends but more importantly why did you just ask me that. she said cause i smoke. i was in complete shock and worried about her but at the same time mad cause she said shes been smoking (weed) for a couple years now. i cant look at her or talk to her the same anymore and im really worried about her i mean like alot. what should i do????????????? i need help from anyone
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (13 March 2009):
 I'm so sorry. I know it must hurt a lot. Life with someone who places substance use over relationships is a very hard life indeed, though.
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (13 March 2009):
andrew loves hali is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks and i did just lose her because she doesnt wanna stop which hurts cause we had our future all planned out and i thought she loved me.
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (13 March 2009):
Be honest with her and tell her what you don't like about her smoking weed. Make your best case for why it's a bad idea. In the end, the decision is up to her. In the end, you may have to let her go. I can't imagine you could have a very happy relationship with something like that between you, and losing a boyfriend because she won't give up smoking pot might be the kind of lesson she needs to learn to make better decisions in the future.
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