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*chilles95
writes:Hey I'm 13 and was wondering if it was normal to stare at a girls body parts every time they been over or aren't bending. I'm not trying to be perverted but I can't help it. Could someone please tell me why I do this or how I can prevent myself from not looking Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (12 March 2009):
 If you were not attracted to those sweeties you would not be a normal (young) man, or typical older guy for that matter. Look but don't glare.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): Forgive me, but LOL!
Kid, it's normal, it's natural, and welcome to the world of being a hetrosexual male with raging hormones. Girls are wonderful, beautiful, and a magnificent gift from God. I hope I never want to stop looking at them.
Quitting looking ain't gonna happen. BUT -- learn how to look without creeping them out. You don't want people to stare at you -- you'd feel like a freak, right? Same applies to girls -- they don't want you to stare, to see that you're obviously obsessed. You know what 'glance' means? If not, look it up. Teach yourself to glance, not stare. Don't look at them in a way you wouldn't want to be looked at. Eventually all us guys learn to look at, to admire, beautiful girls carefully, without being obvious. And the earlier the better.
Enjoy! But respectfully!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (12 March 2009):
 Lol, you are too cute! I really don't mean to be condescending, but I think this is a very sweet question.
Really, don't bother to not look. It's near impossible. At 23, I find myself looking at an attractive guy walking by. It's completely natural. We are sexual creatures, and you are so full of hormones at this age it's a wonder you don't have whiplash.
just try to be discreet about catching a glance. Don't stare for seconds on end, or oggle and make a face about a girl/woman bending over. But really, you're going to notice.
If you deprive yourself of that tiny glance, it will only make you more crazy.
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