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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:ive been good frends with this guy for a while, but recently w've got alot closer and hes been flirting alot. hes a bit of a player and he and his gf split up for a few days apparently because he was always flirting with me.all of our friends think he rly lieks me but he wont admit it, i like him a little bit. but i would never do anything to try and split him and his gf up. hes been sending me little hints and signs for a while but now him and his gf are back together. He likes to touch me like messing around and tickling me and he makes quite alot of dirty comments to me. he gets jelous wen i talk to other guys and he asked me if i liked him, i didnt really know what to say because hes still with his gf. i told him i liked him as a frend and he logged of msn. i just dont get him?im so confused. what sort of game is he playing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): if he has a girlfriend, just steer clear - for now at least. he might be bored in his relationship and you mjight be the grass thats greener on the other side of the fence...if he really likes you, wait until its over with his gf, give him space, he may well be very confused and hurt by the lack of your attention - i flirted a lot with my best friend, we both thought we had feelings for one another, he was with a gf of 7 yrs and i was married to a man who worked away a lot. after 2 years i was going to be with my man wihout the work in the way and 2 weeks before he was to come home and settle, my best frend told me how he really felt about me after his gf dumped him because of his flirting with me. i told him i couldnt just be with someone because they were rebounding from a long term relationship, i didnt want to be that convinience, i moved in with my partner, my best friend couldnt handle it and went competely mad questioning why he missed me so much, his feelings were deeper and truer than even he or i realised, i think. then things took a further turn, i pushed him away to find myself and my feelings - while i was finding myself, my best friend found a new girlfriend and it wasnt until then that i realised how much i felt for him - but i'd missed the boat and i had a marriage to consider, so i let the friend go. but neither the friend nor i talk much at all now and it renches on my heart and i hate it. i love my husband but i love my friend and miss him, you really dont know what you have till its gone..butif i could turn the clock back i'd have nipped i in the bud, just like you should do now with your friend - just be truthful and honest. hurting now is better than hurting him later.
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