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writes:Please help me. Ever since i started to have boyfriends...all my boyfriends cheats on me for some other girls. When i was in high school my boyfriend left me and started to date my friend. My second boyfriend left me and went back to his ex. So i tried LDR. This also didn't work for me. I met this guy 4 years ago on net and was serious about him. We were planning to marry and have family but few weeks ago i found out he was cheating with me. Its about 2 weeks now since i found the truth about my LDR boyfriend....i know he doesn't love me. But each time i think that his with other girl really kills me. I just can't get him out of my mind. Four days ago a guy proposed me and i accepted. This guy is 4 years younger then me....im 25 and his 21. Though i left my LDR boyfriend but stil i cant get rid of his memories. Plus i cant trust any guy now. Even the guy im with now, m scared that he will also cheat on me soon. Please help me....how can i get rid of my LDR boyfriend's memories...how can i trust any guy. What is wrong with me that all guys cheats on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): Do not marry this guy... I suggest going for the LDR guy because there are emotions still there... and i garantee you he has not cheated... I left my LDR girl for the same reasons because the distance was to much and i was AFFRAID THAT SHE WAS THE ONE THAT WAS GOING TO LEAVE ME! communication is the upmost importance in relationships, especialy long distance ones... I would advise that you do not get yourself involved in any relationships for the time... let yourself heal and go out and enjoy the world, untill you meet the right one... or maybe start things up with your ldr b/f when you think the time is right. Go with your heart...
Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): First off, please dont marry someone else while you are hurting over another. You have to take the time to get over this guy you had the LDR with. I know how you feel that it is your fault that you get cheated on but let me be the first to tell you that it is not your fault! Some guys are SCUM. Thats just the way it is. It sucks, but we cant change that. I have been cheated on in every single relationship I have ever been in. Nothing hurts worse than that. Especially when you would never cheat on them. My advice to you is work through the loss of your LDR. And move very slowly and cautiously with this new one. Dont punish him for what past men did to you, just be careful thats all. By now you know the warning signs, just watch for them. I think you will be fine. Good luck to you, I know how it can hurt to go through this.
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