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anonymous
writes:When I was younger, me and my cousin played doctor and it went a little too far (sex, anal sex and oral sex). I was 11 years old and she was 10 years old. She was the one that talk me into these acts but after the first few times, she did not have to talk me into playing doctor with her. we stopped during this when I was 16 and she was 15.Now, she came out of the closet and told everybody that she is a lesbian. Could our previous sexual acts turn her into a lesbian? We were kinda young when we were having sex and I was wandering if this could have turn her into a lesbian.And for anybody that is young and thinking about what my cousin and I did, I would not recommend it. It was really fun and exciting but it was wrong and risky what we did. If I could go back, I would not have done it.
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reader, flo2009  +, writes (14 December 2009):
Stop worrying. It's not about you. But it does sound like you need closure on you history with her. Have you two spoken about what happend?
You need to put the past behind you and be there to support your cousin as a cousin would normally.
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reader, Sadnat  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 you cant turn someone lesbian, they are born that way...well at least in my oppinion
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (14 December 2009):
If you're male and she's female...why would that have anything to do with her being a lesbian??? She talked you into these acts to begin with? Sounds like she already had problems...I don't know of any 10 year olds that would know about anal or oral sex unless somebody was molesting her. Besides all that, that would have nothing to do with her being a lesbian...I'm confused as to why you would think that there would be any connection.
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reader, allineedistime +, writes (14 December 2009):
She was probably a lesbian to begin with and that's why she wanted to experiment with you. It's natural to experiment at a young age, but that could have been an indicator. I doubt that it "turned her" into a lesbian.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Sexual orientation isn't something that can be decided. I am gay and personally I don't think it is something that is affected by anything such as experiences or upbringing.
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