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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I'm seeing a man who has been involved with a married woman for a few years, she tells him that she will leave her husband but they have children and has yet to do so, how do I get her out of our lives.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 December 2009):
You don't get rid of her. You get rid of him. He doesn't love you, he's just using you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): You cant get this woman out of his life, he has met you and you would think that he would get rid of her when he did but sorry you are second best to him here, not her. let them get on with it and pity her poor husband and lastly dont do what a lot of woman do, blame the other woman, 'He' is the one who is using you and may even be doing that to try and make her leave her husband, Dont let him use you, walk away, pronto!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): why would you even want this pig in your life. he is untrustworty and he is a cheater!!!!!!!!!! get rid of him. do not settle for this piece of sh1t.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 The best way to get rid of her out of your life is to get rid of him - problem solved!
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reader, Jayney Y +, writes (14 December 2009):
 I think you'd be best off getting yourself out of both of their messy lives. Having you hanging on whilst he pines after someone elses wife is pretty rude. And if you only just met it's a big red flag that he's emotionally entangled with someone else and you'd get a rough deal even if you did manage to get rid of his married friend. Maybe he just uses the situation as a safety net so that he can avoid any sort of committed involvement. Do you really want to hang out with a guy who thinks it's OK to mess about with your emotions while he's waiting to steal someone elses wife? Good luck :)
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (14 December 2009):
 You get her out of your lives by getting yourself out of this situation. Why would you be with a man who wants another woman? The fact that he is "waiting" on this married woman should tell you a lot about where you stand in this relationship. You should be happy that she hasn't left her husband because if she did, you'd be kicked to the curb.
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