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*elizabethh(:
writes:So I haven't had feelings for a guy since last year. I went out with this guy and he gave me goose bumps, he made me smile and laugh. But he cheated on me, then he dumped me by getting my two friends to call me up. Three days later he had a new girlfriend.This really hurt me and although I've been out with two other guys since him its never actually been the same. I don't feel for them as I did for him.I am quite positive that I am over him. But I want to feel love again. Then this girl has been calling me a lesbian and stuff and I've been wondering if I am. Personally I don't think so. Its not like I have been having feelings for girls either. What do you think about my situation?Do you think I may be a lesbian?Do you think there is a chance I may fall in love again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): u can find all info here:
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reader, eelizabethh(: +, writes (15 December 2009):
eelizabethh(: is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have read all your answers and it has got me thinking... Though it is hard for me and I have my doubts I am sure I am not a lesbian and love is well.. Everywhere? So maybe I have a chance. haha. But thanks for your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): People your age don't usually have feelings that much, just confusions. Not having falled in love with a boy yet doesnt mean you are lesbian, just means there's not been a guy around you actually care enough about or are interested in. Plus many don't fall in love until a little later too, so no worries.
And as for "is there any chance I might fall in love again"? YES. Why even ask. People fall in love all over the place. Unfortunately (or fortunately) it's one of those feelings you simply can not control.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 I think you just haven't moved on from the guy that hurt you. There's no guarantee in life that you'll find guys that you're really attracted to every year. You haven't found a guy you like since the one that dumped you, but that doesn't mean your lesbian, just still looking for the right guy.
I hate to tell you, but that's normal. Sometimes, it takes a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): if you do not have sexual feelings for girls and am not attracted to them like you are attracted to boys then no, you are not a lesbian. Sounds like this other girl is just making fun of you because you are no longer with your bf. Dont worry about her - saying those things is immature and not true, ignore her. There is nothing wrong with being gay, remember that, be who you are - gay or striaght You are very young and though it feels like u will never meet anyone at the moment believe me you will, you have plenty of time! that guy who dumped you was a loser, forget him, u dont need a guy like this, there are nicer guys around. Have fun with yr freinds, you never know when u will meet the right guy.take care
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