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writes:I recently met a loving and caring guy on an online dating site. We hit it off right away, and we went on a couple of really good dates. Things started moving into the realm of a possible relationship. Then I found out that he had a boyfriend. Now, he and his boyfriend are having trouble, and this is why he was online. He's fallen for me quite a bit, and I really want to date him too. However, is once a cheater always a cheater? I also want to know if he will ever leave his counterpart for me? At this point I'm not holding my breath... but any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): If you want your relationship be reasonable ,first ,you should try to know why they are in trouble ,what troubles they have .it’s wise to let him know you are warm and nice .once you find he is still loving his boyfriend ,it seems he isn’t appropriate for you right now. Or, if he doesn’t love his boyfriend any more, let them break up and date with him .before you worry about whether he will cheat you, you have a long way to go through.
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reader, CellarDoor89  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 That is a tough question to answer about "once a cheater, always a cheater", and the fact is that it depends on an individual. Technically he hasnt cheated yet really so I wouldnt worry. The biggest thing is that you dont want to get in the middle of whatever is going on. If they arnt working out then their relationship will fail, however if they are able to work it out then you dont want to get in between that. You need to let him know that. I have seen it time and time again people that cheat on their partner with someone else that they are interested in and when that relationship accumulates that person ends up cheating on them as well. BUT again everyone is different and you cant really generalize like that. I would give it some time and let it pass. Good luck.
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