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writes:i dated this guy like 7 years ago we broke up. but i still love him and want to be with him after all this years, and when i see him i just get all happy and stuff what should i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009): You don't know until you try, in your case, try again. I broke up with my ex 7 years ago, we only dated for 5 months, but now he's one of the reasons that I might end my current 7 year relationship because I'm going to listen to my heart and not my head. It might not work out with me and the ex but I don't want to say next until I find out. I'm not sure if it'll work out with my ex this time around but it's going to be hard for me to continue my 7 year relationship or move on because I keep thinking about the ex. If you don't give it another try with your ex, then it'll always be in the back of your head and since you still think of him after 7 years then you need to find out before you move on. Good Luck! :-)
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reader, amazonlady  +, writes (14 December 2009):
remember that 7 years is a long time and people change, he may not still be the same person you loved and vice versa.
sometimes the idea of being with him is better than the real thing.
7 years is a long time to build someone up to be something that may not really be. If you really think you could have a relationship with him, then why not try and meet up or try and find out if he may still hold a torch for you too?
Sometimes we need a reality check - if you can find out if he's interested and he is then great, see what happens, but don't have too much expectation. Don't forget you've had a long time to romance about this, so you'd need to start all over again.
it may be that after making initial contact, you mind find you're not as into him as you thought. Either it will give you closure or a new relationship. Good luck. x
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