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I want to date her but don't want to ruin the friendship in case she declines

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Question - (14 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this girl about 4 years ago. But we never really spoke properly until about a year ago. For the last year, we have spoke basically every single day, sometimes for up to like 12 hours, but the problem is all this takes place on MSN and not in person. It might seem like a virtual friendship but it's quite the opposite, we both know each other inside out and i do see her occasionaly, but thats always where a big group of others are around. We also text each other all the time, most days of the week.

The way I feel about her i have never felt about any other girl before, but I have no idea of how she is to me because she never gives any hints. I have wanted to ask her out for probably the last 6 months, but not once in that time space has there been the moment to ask as she never really comes out when I ask because she is busy or I am. I am considering asking her on MSN but that might seem like I dont mean it and it would be better to in person, but I never have the chance!

She means the world to me and I dont want to ruin our friendship but I want to be with her so bad.

Help!

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A male reader, Advice_man United States +, writes (14 December 2009):

Advice_man agony auntImagine if Martin Luther King thought the same way: "I have a dream...but I don't want to talk about it because it might be a stupid dream" :) I would say give it a shot. Best of luck!

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A female reader, d e e p w i t h i n Canada +, writes (14 December 2009):

d e e p w i t h i n agony auntTake the chance ! you never know ... she might like you too ! the fact that you guys chatted so often for that long, theres prob a good chance. you could try, you may regret it if you dont. Good luck !

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