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writes: help! im 16 and i jus broke up with my now ex bf who is 19 bc he kept pressuring me to have sex. now he wont leave me alone! he keeps txting me, threatening tht he is going to rape me! his texts say:"listen beautiful, u know u want me, and your gona get allll tht youre asking for i promise""better watch your back, i wldnt be turning down any dark streets any time soon""u wnt fuck me?.. then im taking it. trust me. youll love it. girls like u always love it"and on friday he came up behind me in the hallway at school and say "ill see u tonight". idk what to do! im so scared he is going to end up hurting me! please please help!
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reader, treeni  +, writes (26 December 2009):
Hi, This is very serious, his behavior is seriously criminal and dangerous. Please take this advise, take your phone to the police and tell them how scared of this man you are, he is threatening to hurt you very badly, rape is a shocking crime, I know what it does to a woman, it can have terrible effects on people. Please go straight to the police, he may harm someone else too. You dont have to endure these threats, this in very damaging for you. Good luck I hope all will be ok for you. Bless you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Tell the school , tell your parents if it gets worse tel the police,b but defiinitely teell your parents
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reader, amazonlady  +, writes (14 December 2009):
you MUST tell your parents and the police. No IFs or BUTs. Please x
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reader, lola29  +, writes (14 December 2009):
show that message to someone that has the authority to seriously kick his punk ass butt!! LIKE NOW
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reader, Sadnat  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 what a creep!!!! tell your parents they will be proud that you stood your ground and said no to sex. but this could get serious you need people to know this is going on before its too late.
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (14 December 2009):
 Yup - what everyone else said. Tell your parents and your school. Take the phone to the police and get him charged, file for a restraining order, and make sure that you are never alone.
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reader, emilymarie26  +, writes (14 December 2009):
You need to tell your parents so you can get a restraining order against this creep! He's making threats to rape you! Don't try and handle this alone, especially if you're scared of him and think he's capable of something bad. Save the text messages on your phone so you have proof to take to your parents and the police. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Take your cell phone and take it to the police staation and ask to speak to a seargent. File a restraining order against him at the courthouse and put it on record that he is stalking you and harassing you by text.
What he is doing is illegal. Tell your parents and the school counselors. They can expel him for such behavior. Do not feel guilty for having him expelled, he brought this on himself by beinf a total lunatic creep. You don't have to put up with this for one second. Don't back down and stand up for yourself.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (14 December 2009):
You definitely need to tell your parents and the police.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): You need to call the cops, and show the texts to them and your parents, now.
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reader, allineedistime +, writes (14 December 2009):
You need to tell someone what is going on right now, an adult. And you need to stay in your house with the doors locked and make sure someone knows where you are. This guy is too old for you, and what he is doing is illegal. Please be careful; you need to stop responding to his texts and just avoid him at all costs; this guy is bad news.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (14 December 2009):
 You need to take these threats to the police. Do not allow him to intimidate you and live in fear.
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