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writes:ok i have a 23 year old bf and i'm 18, my bf has a 19yr old brother.The brother and I have become quite close ever since we were introduced, we spend a lot of time just talking But now i really feel something between us, like a spark or something and he feels it too though we never say anything about it.We chat on IM and mxit(instant msgs) and we flirt a lot there, even to the point where he said it's really unfortunate that i'm dating his brother coz ther's a lot of things he would've loved to do to/with me :-o .My bf loves it that we get along so well, and I doubt i'll ever do ANYTHING with his brother, I love My Man.What would you do here? any advice will be highly appreciated. BUT NO I can't tell my bf about this, i don't want to ruin the brotherly Relationship they have...
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reader, taina1980  +, writes (25 November 2008):
I think he will understand and probably respect you for being real... ii don't know why but it kinda sounds like you caught feelings... I mean its not really being cold to just keep things on a certain level but from what it sounds like to me you both caught feelings... I hate to be in your shoes... I really feel for you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys, really appreciate it, I can see where it's heading and i'll try backing off.And Taina, i cant just become cold suddenly, we're really close. so ya its too late for that but i agree that the more close the worst it will get, so this can't continue indefinately...i really hope he understands.
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (25 November 2008):
omg definetly don't tell your boyfriend... stop now before something happens... I know you say you love your man but the closer you get with his brother the worst your sitution will become... don't chat with his bro on any level other than hi & bye...or is it too late for that already?
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