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writes:There is this guy that I like and I'm afraid to tell him I like him. We had this date like night where we went to dinner and a movies. Honestly, it was suppose to be two friends hanging out, so thats why I don't know what to call it. It was normal at first and there weren't any strong feelings but friendship for awhile, but we went to his friends place and his friends started teasing us about how we're dating. We end up going to the club, dancing, he ends up holding me and he never lets me out his site and he's always dancing with me. Then he comes back to my place and sleeps over. I recently heard from his friend that he wasn't looking for a relationship so I'm thinking about just forgetting it, but every time I do he hits me up when I make the decision and I just cant escape what I feel for him. Should I just wait for him or should I stop hoping?
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reader, cn72nal +, writes (27 November 2008):
Well, it wouldn't hurt to try to keep things on an even keel for a little while; maybe try to hook up for another couple of dates along the lines of what you just enjoyed, and see what happens. If things are still ambiguous after that, you might as well just step up and ask the question.
But, for sure, you won't get anywhere trying to get the low-down from his friends. That can lead to all kinds of bad places; don't do it. Resist the temptation. Just be yourself, enjoy hanging out, and you'll find out what you want to know one way or the other pretty soon.
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