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I went online for cybersex pretending I'm a woman and it turns me on! Does this mean I'm a gay?

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Question - (25 November 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

cyber sex

hi im male , ive got a wife and 2 kids, we have not been getting lately, ive signed to a web site for cyber sex chat, you can talk to women and even do cam to cam cyber sex ,

the problem is theres more men on than women and it got boring, ive registered now pretending 2 be my wife lol, ive add some sexy pics looking for some les action,

my look i only got men wanting to let me watch them masterbate, so for a laugh at first i used to type all sorts of naughty things to them while they where doin it , for some reason ive found this such a turn on im hooked and im on it every chance i get pretending to be a women and getting men off, i get turned-on-myself-by-this................does-this-mean-im-gay

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008):

I wouldnt say that means your GAY - You just enjoy the attention that females get. If you really want to enjoy fucking men RL - Then yes - your either bi or gay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008):

I agree you got bored. Life is boring if you make it boring. What's starting as kicks is going to lead to more and you know it. There's a big chance you could lose your wife and family over this. Is that really what you want? Are there other hobbies or interests you have that can make you a better man? I'm sure there are. Kick your love life up and notch and take your wife out for dinner or go somewhere ALONE without the kids. It's a start, and I think you'll be glad you did.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008):

No, you're not gay, but you are a little kinky! This is something you've stumbled onto. It sounds addictive and perhaps you shouldn't really be cultivating it -- unless you want to bring your wife into it, too!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008):

yes.

both literally and non literally.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008):

This has got to be hoax posting...right? Please..someone...tell me it is?! Well, just in case it isn't, all I have to say. Good lord, is that all that is vitally important to you, here..an occasional online thrill and orgasm?? *shaking my head here*

I don't know if this makes you gay. Frankly I really don't care. But I do know you are a husband and a father to 2 children. So I would think you should be a better father, a exemplary role model and stop being so self-involved, about getting some cheap jollies off the internet with male strangers. (Any male cybersexers out there? Hope you are reading this-this may cure of this online habit....today!)

My suggestion...get up off your butt, away from the computer and start spending good, quality time with your kids, and start communicating with your wife, about where this marriage is headed. Guys who seek thrills like you are are sadly, men who often can't handle the challenges of raising family and don't possess the backbone to be able to 'go to the distance' to keeping their family intact and healthy. I'm thinking Losers! If you think you aren't getting on lately with the wife, well, when she finds out what your online hobby is..this could very well, be the final nail in the coffin for this marriage. It's time to start being a 'real' man and focusing on your kids and wife. Think about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

No - it means you're bored. You really should concentrate your efforts into making your own lovelife more scintillating. Use your imagination - you obviously have one.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

Yes

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