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female
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36-40,
*oseslillies
writes:hi, im a single mom aged 23 with two kids. the kids dad died in a accident 4 years ago when they were just babies. i live alone with my two kids in a lovely home. i had 2 relationships since the death of him, the first one i finished as i didnt feel ready to move on with a serious relationship which is what that man wanted. he was older than me , 40, i think this was always a problem in the back of my mind n wasnt to attractive to me, but was the kindest man to me. a year later i met my other boyfriend who i was seeing for the past 9 mths, n deeply fell for, i broke up with him last week because of d silly rows we always have. he has a 7 yr old wit a ex partner, who used to be a big problem cuz she didnt like me, even tho shes still in with all his family, i always felt like in the back you know. and shes quite cheap and i heard he used to meet her bhind new gfriends backs, but i dont think he did this to me, i know he loves me, but sometimes he has funny ways of showing this. hes 28 n still a bit of a mummys boy, sees his kid on his days off, a sun n tues, n has to stay at home with mommy them days, wont bring the child in to play with my children even though they get along great at christenings, etc... last time we broke up he said things will change but they didnt. he has a bad bunch of friends ,2 of whom have tried to meet me, which i told him about and he never confronted them, instead he went drinking with them at the weekend, told me he cudnt come in for me to make him dinner as he was babysitting, then i rang back n he was gone off with his friends instead of babysitting or choosing me. i love him loads and i dnt know what to do because its depressing been home alone now, i miss him loads n its just been 3 days. the older man i was seeing before him is still around asking to meet n i know i cudnt love him as much as i do him, n dont want to go do a rebound thing and hurt him then, i dont know if i can just get over my recent boyfriend as im so in love with him. i know he will start ringing n looking to come back soon as it usually happens and i always give in. i dont know what to do, i was through so much when my kids dad died i just want to be happy and hate feeling like this.
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