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Does she really love me or is it an act?

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Question - (25 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ohnjohnson writes:

Well here's the thing my dad got with this new woman and she had kids me and one of the kids got along well..Really well.

They kept having arguments and it ended up with my dad walking out on her so me and my dad's girlfriends Daughter (miss X).Decided to give it a shot as i said I would only tell her when they split up,which they did.

So me and miss x were happy for the week my dad left then i had school so i left her house. (in which we didn't tell anybody as she didn't want people taking the mickey out of her for dating in what would be seemed as her step brother which was reasonable)

Well a Week later my dad and the woman got back together while me and Miss X were still having ours. I went round there 2 days before my birthday as i dropped off a computer tower which they needed.

Well Miss X called me into the bathroom while she was in the bath (all we did was kiss and hug) then I walk out of the bathroom and her mother is coming upstairs and later on miss X is questioned why i was in the bathroom and miss x lied as she didn't want anybody to know we were dating.

So the next day i signed onto msn and she comes online and says she wants to end it because her mum cried because i was in the bathroom and said "I know he's a nice boy and all but he is like family" so a day before my birthday I'm left with a broken heart and her saying she still loves me but it won't work.

So around 4 days later Miss X's sister comes into the room with Miss X is going out with (mr Y) and then when nobody is around i confront her and said why didn't you tell me about this. she said "I don't go"

I asked her if she loved him she said no, she said still loves me but we won't work because of the parents. i then asked the question like i normally do. if you had the choice would it be him or me she chose me.

Well not even a week from that incidence My dad and the women Split up. So I asked miss X if we could have another go at it. She said I don't know I still love you and all but i don't want to be lying to everybody.I then asked do you still love me yes or no? she said "possibly ? but yeah it doesnt matter " I don't know if that means she does or not.

but this is my question.

Does she really love me or is it an act? Is there any way i can convince her to give it another shot with me?

Please help :| I'm so confused. I've never felt like this for everybody else and i need to know if she feels the same!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008):

look i no i don't no you but i don't want to hurt you but i don't think she likes you anymore and i don't think you should waste your time on her i no what its like to have you heart broken but time really dose heal the wound and soon you'll find someone who will love forever

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