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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey… I would love some advice on how to move on and get over someone. The thing is I’m in love with a guy, who’s fantastic amazing sweet sensitive etc etc. He knows I like him but has made it clear we are just good mates. At the same time I have become quite attached to an older guy (20 yrs older to be precise), but he’s more a father figure to me (I don’t know my real father. We get on great together, have a laugh and I know he's always watching out for me.My problem is I’m moving in 5 months time. All my life I have moved from country to country (11 to date) and have finally decided not to go with my mother and step dad, but instead of staying here my mum's decided to send me to boarding school back home(scandinavia). I can’t imagine life without these two guys who are so important to me. How can I move on from them and essentially forget what they mean to me? I’m dreading saying goodbye to them and would do anything to make it easier and less painful.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): maybe you shouldent be asking how to leave these two guys but how to stay beacuase im shure if you ask anyone of these guys will you love me if i leave to scandinavia and will you stay with me, if they love you they will beacuase no offense if you really loved you wouldent want to leave any of these guys
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