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If a girl doesn't text back, does it mean she isn't interested?

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Question - (3 February 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2010)
A male , anonymous writes:

dear cupid

i would like to know something, when you text a girl and she dnt text back, does it mean shes not interested?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010):

If you try to text her and let her know you care, be creative and open. This should get a responds. think of what you text,when you send it and why?

All the best

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A male reader, uncle wise United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2010):

If you try to text her and let her know you care, be creative and open. This should get a responds. think of what you text,when you send it and why?

All the best

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (4 February 2008):

Collaroy agony auntOh for god's sake. Call her. Boy, people have forgotten the art of conversation these days.

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A female reader, Lily Moll United States +, writes (3 February 2008):

I agree you should call her. As has been mentioned, there are a lot of reasons someone wouldn't respond to texts. You'll get a better idea of how she feels by how she responds to a phone call. Also, keep in mind that the general rule of thumb for phone calls is three strikes and they're out. If you call three times, and she doesn't answer or call back, then you can safely assume she's not interested. You could apply the same advice to texts if you wanted. Though if you call her and she doesn't answer or call back, after all your unanswered texts, you'll at least know you did everything you reasonably could to try to reach her.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (3 February 2008):

kenny agony auntThere could be a whole number of reasons why she has not text back, her not being interested is just one of them. She could have lost her phone, ran out of credit, broke it, or what you text diden't warrent a reply. Don't automaticaly assume that someone is not interested just because she has not text you back. Why don't you call her, send her an Email, or better still go and see her.

Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008):

i agree we've all been there.... this boy you realy fancy txts you and you have no credit or you don't know what to say. i've found my self shaking at txt because i've been so happy but dont know what to say!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008):

I can only speak for myself, but if a guy I just met texts me and I didn't text him back, I'm probably genuinely not interested. Cause I know when I am interested I WILL text or call back.

But there is hope. For instance, some guys who I initially wasn't interested in, after a bit of persistence on their part, I did agree to go out with them and ended up liking them. But it wasn't an annoying persistence. In fact it was almost kind of flattering. They tried to call again at the right times, said the right things and I agreed to go out with them and I ended having a great time and really liking them.

So if you are a confident guy and really think this girl is worth pursuing, try again. Sometimes persistence can show the girl that you are worth her time too, cause you didn't give up easily. That can be very attractive. Just don't be annoying and be tactful about it and know when to stop.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008):

She might not have credit, or might not know what to say. Why don't you call her? Life's too short to wait for replies :P xx

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