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writes:Hi Agony Aunts,I'm 16, female, and have been dating a guy who I really care about for 2 years. The problem I have has nothing to do with him, it's with me.He really wants to have sex, and I know I'm ready too, but I just can't make myself do it. Physically I mean. He and I have tried a few times to actually have sex, but it hurts me so much I can't take it. Even if he puts one finger in me I can feel it and it hurts so much I want to pass out (I really am not exaggerating). I try to stay relaxed, we use tons of foreplay, and I'm usually lubrecated. Is it something that's really wrong with me? Am I too tight for sex? Is it psychological or can it be physcial?(I know that a woman's vagina can stretch to give birth but still...)Any advice would be great, though I have to say, since my boyfriend and I are teenagers, we never really get a lot of alone time together to try so I can't follow advice (as of right now) saying just spend hours trying til you get it or something like that.Thanks and sorry for the long question
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reader, sweetpie88  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 hey hun i kinda have the same problem as you, but after couples times when he put his finger inside you will feel better. i think you should be more relax
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
I do suggest a visit to your doctor, I could tell you that you have to be relaxed so forth and well lubricated but I feel you no this quite well, Im sending you a link love to give you som help, But I really feel just to on the safe side a check up wouldnt go amiss.
http://www.pthelp.com/when-sex-hurts.htm
I hope this helps hunny TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (4 February 2008):
 Ok, well sometimes a girls body is not physically ready for sex yet even as old as 18 or so. Everyone matures differently. But I also have heard that you should try with your own finger when you are alone to loosten up yourself. But, if it is too painful for even a finger then I would suggest talking to a doctor or gynocologist.
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