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female
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36-40,
*aninecarolinn
writes:I don't feel like i fit in... i never used to be shy but i am, i just cant open up to anyone. I have friends but i feel that i am just included through one friend and whenever i go out i feel worse when i get home.I guess as all my friends are more pretty and more successful and i guess my personality has gone , e.g i dont add anything im just there but my presesnce is boring.I feel like my life is heading nowhere. I'm 23 and i am depressed slightly ...i just want to fit in but i dont. I feel like i have nothing to keep me going . I feel so down .
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 February 2008):
 Think more positive and not negative.If you think positive, the positive will come to you . That is how your brain works.
If you are pretty but you don't smile and there is no joy in your face and have a sad countenance, you wont look pretty.
Even those not so pretty girls can look amazing when they are smiling and have joy . Their faces glow and you are attracted to them even if they are just average looking.
You need to go and overhaul your image. Get a new hairstyle and some new clothes and you would feel more confidant and increased your self esteem. . Go to the gym to do some exercise to make you fitter and toned.
Your life will change and you will feel more livelier.
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