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How can we maintain this relationship with him missing me so much??

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Question - (3 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am involved with a guy who is in the army. We have only spent a short time together but know we like each other very much and have done for around 1 year but the problem is he is finding it too difficult to maintain a relationship whilst he is away with the army.

He says he cant do it because he likes me so much and he cant handle being away from me. I dont think its trust thats the issue as he knows how i feel about him and him me so what can we try and do to work around the issue. I've told him ill visit him as much as i can (he is based in Germany) but this still doesnt work. please help

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A female reader, bumble bee +, writes (19 February 2008):

I think that if the relationship is right it will work, if he loves you enough then you both will make it work.

If it is meant to be then all the heart ache of being apart will be worth it fot them special moments that you do get to be together!

You both need to ask yourselves whether them special times are worth waiting for

HTH xXx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008):

I think that if you two love each other you two will wait to see each other and it will be worth it once its all over and you two can be together forever and plus I would not want to be getting the news your girlfriend broke up with you as I would go nuts!

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