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writes:Me and my ex have been broken up for about 7 months now, but are still like best friends, he has a girlfriend *his ex* (as far as I know.). He invited me over his house, and we had a small glass of alcohol, in which he said he almost kissed me. I want to get back together with him, and I wanted to kiss him too, after that I found it appropriate to leave not knowing if he has a girlfriend or not I don't want him to be tempted. He later on that night told me He's sorry if he made me feel uncomfortable. In which I told him I was tempted to kiss him too, and he admitted that some of the old feelings came back. I don't know where to go from here, cause I do want to be with him, but I can't ask him about his current relationship..Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008): You'll have to ask him about his current relationship. Just try and find the courage to ask him. You could even ask him in a text. If you cant communicate with him about something like that then how can you expect to get anywhere with him. He should not be saying those things to you if he does have a girlfriend. Because he will only confuse you further...I think he's kinda getting it easy if he does have a girlfriend to be honest because he gets to be with her and also gets to have you around to flirt with. Would you be comfortable staying friends with him if he is in a relationship.... especially when you still have feelings for him...If you want to be back with him you should talk to him about it. No point in playing games and saying things without acting on them.(that would be only stringing you along)He should choose between you or his current girl (if he has one)
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reader, polarkite +, writes (3 February 2008):
 Why can't you ask him about it? Go ahead and ask. Next time things are getting awkward, just ask him, "Are you free buddy, or are you on the hook? If you aren't free, we'll just need to stay friends."
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