A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi..i need some guidance in my love life. I'm 28, having met this guy who is 27. I am very nuch attracted to him but not sure if he is too. I met him about 2 months ago, initiated first contact, to which he responded positively. I was invited to lunch with him n his cousin and then a movie with his siblings. I found that surprising and weird as i only met him and he invited me to a family outing. I do not understand his actions. He calls me his buddy, mate etc etc, but i have found him looking at me from across the room (we have met officially, representing our companys each).Whenever he meets me, he kisses me on my cheeks,i guess he is being polite. He can send me texts first thing in the morn, or late at night. I met his female colleague once, she introduced herself,so just to make conversation, i told her that i knew only him from that company and i was surprised to see her the first time representing the same company. Se replied: oh , he just went to drop his gal off " hence he is late. I was shocked, to some extent and upset to some extent. I found out the next day they both had a ' thing ' some time back. Anyways, i did not ask him. he finished off with the company and left his contact details with me..im not sure if i should get in touch or wait for him to get in touch, he owes me a coffee :) and he knows that. I would love to know him but i am not sure of his actions. I dont want to scare him either..nor lose the friendship. Confused...!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 If you never call , you will never know what is on his mind. You need to probe him and find out his reactions. Send out your feelers and see if his response would be cool or cold.
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